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Why wasn't Jesus married?

leov

Well-Known Member
I have read that as well. Not sure if John the Baptist was Essene, but his views influenced Jesus for sure.
We know that Essenes were one of three major groups, and there is no
no negativity shown regarding E. ; rather in Acts we see the first Christian group organized itself in E. pattern, fwiw.
 

Samantha Rinne

Resident Genderfluid Writer/Artist
He was probably infertile.

The Jews, with their active attention to circumcision, knew a thing or two. They classified people into six genders:
1. Male
2. Female
3. Androgyne (both parts)
4. Tumtum (not really clearly defined)
5. Aylonit (Basically a barren female and/or someone who develops male secondary characteristics at puberty)
6. Saris (A barren male which may have some breast growth)

More Than Just Male and Female: The Six Genders in Classical Judaism — SOJOURN

The Saris appeared to have most of the rights of a typical male, with the exception of not being able to serve in the Sanhedrin, but generally in Judaism the purpose of marriage was not for "love" but reproduction. People who didn't seem likely to be able to do the deed were probably left out of the equation.

Now, why would he have been a Saris? Well, his mother effectively had no human male genetic material, and effectively was given a child through the same miracle as many animal species, parthenogenesis. Well, what do we know of parthenogenesis. It basically produces a clone of the mother. So if Jesus was essentially his mother's son, so to speak, identical in all aspects but the appearance of manhood, it stands to reason that his equipment probably didn't work.
 

Cooky

Veteran Member
Didn't almost all other biblical prophets have wives - many of them? Is there evidence in the bible Jesus wasn't married? Why shouldn't he have been?

Probably he shouldn't have been because:
  • He was about to die soon, so that would be unfair
  • He was fully God, and so God's direct offspring would be a superior race.
 

firedragon

Veteran Member
Didn't almost all other biblical prophets have wives - many of them? Is there evidence in the bible Jesus wasn't married? Why shouldn't he have been?

Brother. That question is a strange question. Say if there is no evidence that a man was not married, he would have been married? Maybe he wasn't married. Forget about all the faith matters etc, why ask the question why shouldn't he have been married? Well, why is it so necessary that he should have been married?

Well, there is no evidence that Paul was married in the bible! What do you make of that?

Anyway, why would you ask this question? I am sure you had something more serious than this trivia so can you explain?

Im sorry if I have not read through all the messages here.
 

Wasp

Active Member
Brother. That question is a strange question. Say if there is no evidence that a man was not married, he would have been married? Maybe he wasn't married. Forget about all the faith matters etc, why ask the question why shouldn't he have been married? Well, why is it so necessary that he should have been married?
I'm interested in why Christians in general think he wasn't married.
Well, there is no evidence that Paul was married in the bible! What do you make of that?
He wasn't a prophet.
Anyway, why would you ask this question? I am sure you had something more serious than this trivia
Not really. Sorry to disappoint.
 

loverofhumanity

We are all the leaves of one tree
Premium Member
Didn't almost all other biblical prophets have wives - many of them? Is there evidence in the bible Jesus wasn't married? Why shouldn't he have been?

Baha’u’llah directly addressed Christian monks with regards to Jesus chastity.

“O CONCOURSE of monks! Seclude not yourselves in churches and cloisters.”........

He that wedded not (Jesus) found no place wherein to dwell or lay His head, by reason of that which the hands of the treacherous had wrought. His sanctity consisteth not in that which ye believe or fancy, but rather in the things We possess.”

Bahá’u’lláh


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firedragon

Veteran Member
I'm interested in why Christians in general think he wasn't married.
He wasn't a prophet.
Not really. Sorry to disappoint.

So you claim that all prophets mentioned in the Bible were all married and because that Jesus would have been married?

Is that your point?
 

Wasp

Active Member
So you claim that all prophets mentioned in the Bible were all married and because that Jesus would have been married?

Is that your point?
No. I'm a Muslim. Islam says nothing about him not being married or being married. I don't care if he was married or not. But the bible doesn't say he wasn't married. And the Christians in general think he wasn't married. I am interested in why they think that.
 

metis

aged ecumenical anthropologist
I'm not sure I understand how you are bringing this as an extension of what you wrote earlier. In your earlier post you explained that the nazir lived in austerity. This passage is saying that the nazir only denies himself wine.
Again, my post #52, especially the underlined part, says otherwise.
 

Tumah

Veteran Member
Again, my post #52, especially the underlined part, says otherwise.
But the underlined part of the quoted passage is an a fortiori argument from nazir to fasting as an argument that a person shouldn't unnecessarily fast. It's saying that a nazir who only abstains from wine is called a sinner, so one who abstains from everything (ie. through fasting), is certainly a sinner. The only thing it's saying about the nazir is that he abstains from wine.
 

1213

Well-Known Member
Didn't almost all other biblical prophets have wives - many of them? Is there evidence in the bible Jesus wasn't married? Why shouldn't he have been?

I don’t think he was, because he had the job to do, which would have made it difficult to have an earthly family.
 

Rival

se Dex me saut.
Staff member
Premium Member
I don’t think he was, because he had the job to do, which would have made it difficult to have an earthly family.
He started his ministry when he was 30. He could have had at least one kid at 18 and the child would have been 12 by the time he began his preaching and 15 by the time he died. Sad, sure, but I can't really see a problem; dying at 33 wasn't exactly a shock back in the day.
 
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Saint Frankenstein

Gone
Premium Member
Can you imagine a 30 year old man in his prime having his leg and feet washed with the tears of a prostitute and then dried with her hair? I bet he was solid rock!
She wasn't a hooker. Some pope pushed that nonsense centuries later. She was actually one of the main leaders of the early Christian movement, was one of Jesus' closest disciples who never deserted him (he even appeared to her first after his resurrection) and should be recognized as an Apostle instead of that usurper, Paul, who never even met Jesus outside of his "vision".

Mary Magdalene was not a prostitute, scholars say. This is what she really was
 

Saint Frankenstein

Gone
Premium Member
So Jesus damaged his gonads for Yahweh? Ew.
No, eunuchs were a third gender category as well as a social function in Mediterranean cultures during that time. They were often castrated and sometimes took on feminine gender roles. The Ethiopian eunuch in chapter 8 of Acts was one of the first Gentiles to be welcomed into the Church. He was a treasurer of the Ethiopian queen.
 
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