Well I hope that this does not insult people, and its not meant to, but let me recount a story...
My wife and I were sat with our daughter and there was an image on the TV of a homsexual couple. Our four year old daughter (as was she is now five) made a disapproving noise, to which my wife asked 'Whats wrong?' Our daughter said 'Allah would be angry.' I spoke to my daughter and said to her almost word for word from the topic 'That Allah hates some actions, but does not want us to hate people, that it is he who is judge.' Ok I can hear you say you have obviously been indoctrinating your children, well to a point this is true. We have talked to her about Allah, about a life to come, about how Allah is absolute and infinite, beyond the universe, supporter of all, BUT at no time have we voiced any opinion about homosexuality to her, nor does the topic ever arise in our household in reagards to a negative ideology toward people following that sexuality.
I think you will have a long wait for believers to state that they love what God has said he hates, but if people are wise enough to leave judgement to God, not casting 'the first stone', and do not patronise you, while not being happy that they do not affirm your sexuality, you can expect naught else.
I hope this post is consider in the light of its intention.
(P.S. I just read my post back through and there is a fault in it. I state that at no time had we indoctrinated our daughter about homsexuality. I must add that this was prior her to bringing it up in said situation. Admittedly my reply to my daughter after her voicing her opinion is of course indoctrination, what I meant was that PRIOR to this event we had not started her indoctrination on this matter.)