Mr Spinkles
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Oh I almost forgot...to answer the question: doesn't my decision become arbitrary, and probably result more from my upbringing/what I'm exposed to in society than from how deserving the person is?
Well, your decision isn't arbitrary, as your feelings are an objective (though not necessarily easy) way of determining how you feel about someone. Still, I would say that yes, the decision probably results more from our upbringing/what we're exposed to in society...and genetics, I suppose...than from how "deserving" the person is. After all, someone could be very deserving, but live half way around the world and never come into contact with you.
Well, your decision isn't arbitrary, as your feelings are an objective (though not necessarily easy) way of determining how you feel about someone. Still, I would say that yes, the decision probably results more from our upbringing/what we're exposed to in society...and genetics, I suppose...than from how "deserving" the person is. After all, someone could be very deserving, but live half way around the world and never come into contact with you.