I certainly do not want to present a double standard argument. I recognize that men and boys can be sexually assaulted and raped. In fact, such is all too common. And excepting the instances of male on male rape, (and sometimes even then), these experiences are often brushed aside.
That said, how we are socialized does in part affect how we handle and cope with such experiences. Beyond that, we are individuals. What may be traumatic for one is not necessarily traumatic for another. So, if you believe you should have reported, i will agree. If you say you suffered, I can accept that. But just because you did not does not mean others should not. Just because you suffered does not mean others should suffer.