I think I can outfox a 10 year old, thanks.
That said, I don't attempt to keep him ignorant.
Facepalm right back at ya.
You may 'outfox' a 10 year old, but there's 11, 12, 13 ....
My point is that web porn is freely available, and you cannot prevent your child from accessing it. So your boy will eventually be viewing it. The belief that you can 'outfox' him is naive in the extreme. Do you intend to 'outfox' his entire peer group ? How can you prevent acces to the web ? You can't. Do you remember being 12, 13, 14 ? Could your parents always outfox you ? Get real. There are zillions of computers and phones out there.
You are making my point clearly though - there is an elephant in the room as far as sex ed goes, and parents are responding with denial and avoidance. Not surprising really, because there does not seem to be any answer to it. One way or another, kids will work out how to access anything, so you need to be thinking about how you will discuss all those online sexual offerings fairly soon (years fly past ...), or decide now to say nothing about it and see what happens.
My mother thought she could outfox me when I was a kid too. LOL
So what does " I don't attempt to keep him ignorant" mean, in relation to web porn ?
When is a good age to discuss BDSM, anal sex and gangbangs ?
Should all these sexual choices be discussed in schools ? An important point here is that the teachers didn't have access to that kind of material when they were 11 (nor did most parents), so they have no idea how the kids will react to it. No-one does, yet. It is a social experiment; not even intentional, so experiment is not the right word - we have no idea how this will affect human sexual relationships at this point.