Your comments make me think that you think I go around and say "Be warm and filled" while gloating over the suffering of others. Nothing could be further from the truth.
James 2:14 What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? 15 Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. 16 If one of you says to him, "Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? 17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. 18 But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds." Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do.
You know, I volunteered my services but they asked that "non-essential" people stay out of the tsunami area. I have also volunteered my cash, which they happily accepted. I have also organised giving on my Board which has done well. During the hurricanes, I volunteered my time, money and resources helping people to cut down trees, cover houses and tried to comfort those who needed it. Could I have done more? Possibly. But I did what I could and will continue to do this. Not out of some need to "be fulfilled", but out of a sincere desire to help others. Does this fulfuill me? Without question.