I know, another 'clothing-related' thread on my part! But clothing norms do seem to play a large part in cultures and societies around the world, and that interests me.
I'm defining 'cross-dressing' here the same way that Wikipedia does in its opening sentence on the topic, to wit: 'Cross-dressing is the act of wearing items of clothing and other accoutrements commonly associated with the opposite sex within a particular society.'
If you feel there's wrong in it, why is that?
I'm a firm believer in free choice. Since this is a big part of God's system, wear whatever clothes you want.
Let me tell you about my cross dressing event. The ladies at work had a charity event where the men were to dress up as women and collect donations from people. I would never do this but the ladies said they could not find anyone who would and the fund raiser would be a failure so I agreed to do it.
The ladies at work had way too much fun dressing me up. As I looked in the mirror, I looked like a mess. I had false eyelashes, high heels, lipstick, and a dress split up the side with my hairy leg showing. There was no chance I could convince anyone I was a woman.
Somehow the crowd loved me. You could not believe so much laughter. Since I usually come across as all male, the contrast for everyone else was funny. The charity was a success. They ladies collected more money than they ever had.
We all won. The charity acquired lots of cash. The ladies and people giving had such a good laugh. I gained much more respect for women. How they walk in those high heels, I'll never know. With all this in mind, cross dressing turned out to be a good thing.
Of course, there is one thing everyone should keep in mind. You might put lipstick on a pig, however in the end all you really have is a pig. You can't run from who you are regardless of what you put on. Accept and nurture who you are. Share that which is special about you with others. If you do that, what you are wearing will not matter.
That's what I see. It's very clear!!