Vendetta
"Oscar the grouch"
Just to be brief very recently I encountered what you call a "bad break up" due to a female I was seeing "snooping" around in my facebook account. To give you some background I was at base and like I always tell people I primarily communicate on my phone since I am always not at home on my computer. Now, somehow a hacker was able to get into my Facebook profile (don't ask me how) and do all kinds of things to my profile. So, a female companion of mine at the time whom I was dating told me "do you trust me?" (Note the keywords) and I followed very quickly with a yes!
Because I didn't have access to a computer at that time she was able to change my password and secure my profile for me. Ok great! However the plot thickens!
Now there was a particular get together I had on a certain day with some friends and I wanted she and I to spend some part of the earlier day so we can see each other. She whined a bit but I told her that I had some friends to meet but promised to see her that night. She argued some more about it but relented. Couple hours later she cursed at me and called me all kinds of names. I was shocked about her reaction towards me so I tried to investigate. So all in all long story short I realized that she looked into my facebook private messages and read some messages I sent to some female friends. Majority of those messages were continuations I had on the phone. So after realizing she utilized my privacy to satisfy her curiousity I realized my privacy was violated and so I gave her the boot. However, discussing this with some of my feminist female friends they obviously took her side with the exception of a few, but the question remains: Despite whatever curiousity a person has is there such thing as a right to invade another adults privacy?
Because I didn't have access to a computer at that time she was able to change my password and secure my profile for me. Ok great! However the plot thickens!
Now there was a particular get together I had on a certain day with some friends and I wanted she and I to spend some part of the earlier day so we can see each other. She whined a bit but I told her that I had some friends to meet but promised to see her that night. She argued some more about it but relented. Couple hours later she cursed at me and called me all kinds of names. I was shocked about her reaction towards me so I tried to investigate. So all in all long story short I realized that she looked into my facebook private messages and read some messages I sent to some female friends. Majority of those messages were continuations I had on the phone. So after realizing she utilized my privacy to satisfy her curiousity I realized my privacy was violated and so I gave her the boot. However, discussing this with some of my feminist female friends they obviously took her side with the exception of a few, but the question remains: Despite whatever curiousity a person has is there such thing as a right to invade another adults privacy?