Epic Beard Man
Bearded Philosopher
So I broke it off with my girlfriend....
In a nutshell she has some psychological issues concerning sexual abuse and physical abuse that she has not healed from nor does she intend to. Basically she feels that counseling does not help and that I ought to accept her baggage.
So I gave up and ended it, even though I have/had feelings for her.
The story of my life which I hate, is that I feel I wasted time and money and emotional energy on someone that was broken. Although I am physically fit and she on the chunky side, I got her on my membership so we could workout together. She loved the idea.
I told her how beautiful she is everyday. How she made me feel. Nothing was good enough and in fact she accused me of not showing her love the way she wanted. It seemed she wanted constant confirmation.
Then came the admission that she purposefully sabotage relationships due to her insecurities. Since this relationship I am pretty much fed up with women and rather just be a George Clooney and just have “friends with benefits.”
It’s sad cause I’m a young man that wants to get married and have kids but so many women have mental issues it’s hard to settle.
Advice?
In a nutshell she has some psychological issues concerning sexual abuse and physical abuse that she has not healed from nor does she intend to. Basically she feels that counseling does not help and that I ought to accept her baggage.
So I gave up and ended it, even though I have/had feelings for her.
The story of my life which I hate, is that I feel I wasted time and money and emotional energy on someone that was broken. Although I am physically fit and she on the chunky side, I got her on my membership so we could workout together. She loved the idea.
I told her how beautiful she is everyday. How she made me feel. Nothing was good enough and in fact she accused me of not showing her love the way she wanted. It seemed she wanted constant confirmation.
Then came the admission that she purposefully sabotage relationships due to her insecurities. Since this relationship I am pretty much fed up with women and rather just be a George Clooney and just have “friends with benefits.”
It’s sad cause I’m a young man that wants to get married and have kids but so many women have mental issues it’s hard to settle.
Advice?