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That's it all the world had different opinion on these issues.All the difference in the world.
A secret liaison is by definition a deception, and by its nature is being kept from your knowledge and is most like nefarious, and is outside "Trust"
an open and honest meeting between friends is not a problem.
Why can't you imagine your woman to dance with another man. It would seem quite normal to me. and has been done in my country since time immemorial. Even though wives were the virtual "property" of husbands for hundreds of years, until modern times.
A dance is a dance nothing more.... most early court dances involved rotation and changing of partners so that every one danced with everyone else.
That's it all the world had different opinion on these issues.
even If my wife make a contact in my knowledge that's does not mean I should agree with .
For me If she had contact with her male friends with my agree, I would not blame her that she could on cheat on me, because I just make it easy to her.
I can't imagine that my woman dancing with male friend,exactly as you can't imagine that she make sex with him.
Some people may agree that his wife make a massage by male too lol .
If next few years all world agree that their wives make a massage by male, should you follow them ?
Didn't you say you were gay ( on another thread?)
Anyhow, This Thread interests me because less than 24 hours ago I just found out what the word cuckold means from a different website. I wonder if this is a sign from Allah
Okay, try to think about this. The ones here trying to establish that jealousy in a relationship is a good thing are men. The ones that would, through jealousy, control in their relationships are men. You believe that women want a jealous man probably because that is all you know and were led to believe that. It also works to your advantage and allows you to be jealous and, therefore, in control of the relationship through emotional manipulation. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you, flat out, it is NOT a desirable trait in a man. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you what it feels like to deal with the jealousy of her ex-husband. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you the other side of the relationship feels awful, judged, controlled, manipulated, cut off, stifled. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you...jealousy is NOT something we desire in a relationship. I hated living like that. Hated having my then husband jealous and suspicious of every move I make. I felt awful in that relationship. It does not feel good to have a man jealous over you all the time. I felt untrusted, disrespected, manipulated, belittled, and more. My current husband, we have been together for over 10 years now and I am happy. I'm respected, trusted, treated as an equal, and I actually feel loved.I do believe that most of human being are jealous, they are live in their homes not in prisons.
I do believe that many women prefer the jealousy man than careless man.
Since there is instinct,I personally don't believe much in friendship between man and woman, because that friendship could easly extend to other step, especially when they become alone.Every thing you say about women seems to revolve about sex.
can you not think of women as just friends.
It is not normal for men to massage women, though I see no problem in an open massage parlour however not in a private one. Much in the way male and female doctors are required to treat both men and women. As do chiropractors and physiotherapists.
When you go to to the doctors surgery or hospital you are as likely to be seen by either a male or female doctor or nurse. why should it even matter?
I don't think that every women like the man who don't care, not jealous at all .Okay, try to think about this. The ones here trying to establish that jealousy in a relationship is a good thing are men. The ones that would, through jealousy, control in their relationships are men. You believe that women want a jealous man probably because that is all you know and were led to believe that. It also works to your advantage and allows you to be jealous and, therefore, in control of the relationship through emotional manipulation. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you, flat out, it is NOT a desirable trait in a man. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you what it feels like to deal with the jealousy of her ex-husband. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you the other side of the relationship feels awful, judged, controlled, manipulated, cut off, stifled. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you...jealousy is NOT something we desire in a relationship. I hated living like that. Hated having my then husband jealous and suspicious of every move I make. I felt awful in that relationship. It does not feel good to have a man jealous over you all the time. I felt untrusted, disrespected, manipulated, belittled, and more. My current husband, we have been together for over 10 years now and I am happy. I'm respected, trusted, treated as an equal, and I actually feel loved.
I don't know if this, what I'm saying, will truly make any impact on you and how you feel about this. Your culture and beliefs have been ingrained in you to think that that is what a woman wants. But I'm telling you, from a woman's side, it is unwanted. Trust is better than jealousy. Period.
Since there is instinct,I personally don't believe much in friendship between man and woman, because that friendship could easly extend to other step, especially when they become alone.
It's exist but for my opinion it's rare.
-Doctors it's duty not forcely could extend to friendship ... that maybe could not be a big deal whatever gender.
-I perfer the good doctor ,whatever doctor gender.
-Just curious ,do you consider who let his woman doing massage by man in private, as cuckold ?
It is possable that a private massage could be entirely innocent, but it can be just a sexual encounter.
I do not think in terms of a cuckold, it is a very old fashioned concept and not used much for perhaps 200 years.
from your answer you expect a male doctor to use self control when examining and treating your wife.
we expect all men to use self control when with women. They should make no sexual advances unless invited.
To make unwanted sexual advances is also against the law.
As they say there is a time and place for everything, and how we should behave toward women is learnt at a very early age.
For your opinion what is different between cuckold and carelless ?Jealousy is evil.
For your opinion what is different between cuckold and carelless ?
do you agree that jealousy is opposite of the cuckold ?
I think this is very complicate subject and had very different opinion and understanding.If you genuinely love someone -- if you are not pretending to love someone, but genuinely love them -- then you care enough about them to want what is best for them. You want the best for them, and you do not allow such petty emotions as jealousy to get in the way of your wanting the best for them.
Foolish people say jealousy is a sign of love. But jealousy arises out of fear and possessiveness, and where there is fear and possessiveness, there is not love: There is at most emotional dependency.
Absolutely not. Many people who have been cuckolded were jealous.
Just curious ,do you consider who let his woman doing massage by man in private, as cuckold ?
This is correct , and I do agree with.Cuckold... sounds like name of an evil witch!
Ah, perhaps different cultures have different meaning of cuckold. Some strict views even consider men who are fine with women talking to other men on telephone cuckolds.
Are male or female ?As a physical therapist assistant and massage therapist I massage both men and women all day as part of my job. Just like doctors, I am not there to provide sexual gratification, I am there to help treat soft tissue injury.
This is correct , and I do agree with.
let my wife talking to have fun (sexy discuss) with strangers is cuckold.
I am female and no, I am happily married and have no desire to engage in sexual behavior with a client which would not only be a huge ethical breach that I vehemently oppose but I would also lose my license.Are male or female ?
Do you think this job could lead to privet relation between the masseur and woman or opposite?