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Cuckold !

Check the Box you agree with, this about cuckold of men,women is ok to vote too :)

  • Cuckold is normal relation

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  • I DON'Tconsider allow partner to the sleep with men as cuckold act

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  • I am cuckold

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  • Total voters
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Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
In my opinion, it takes exceptional maturity, skill, and wisdom to make an open relationship work. That's why open relationships are beyond the emotional maturity, relationship skills, and wisdom of most people.
 

Smart_Guy

...
Premium Member
Cuckold... sounds like name of an evil witch!

Ah, perhaps different cultures have different meaning of cuckold. Some strict views even consider men who are fine with women talking to other men on telephone cuckolds.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
All the difference in the world.
A secret liaison is by definition a deception, and by its nature is being kept from your knowledge and is most like nefarious, and is outside "Trust"
an open and honest meeting between friends is not a problem.

Why can't you imagine your woman to dance with another man. It would seem quite normal to me. and has been done in my country since time immemorial. Even though wives were the virtual "property" of husbands for hundreds of years, until modern times.
A dance is a dance nothing more.... most early court dances involved rotation and changing of partners so that every one danced with everyone else.
That's it all the world had different opinion on these issues.

even If my wife make a contact in my knowledge that's does not mean I should agree with .

For me If she had contact with her male friends with my agree, I would not blame her that she could on cheat on me, because I just make it easy to her.

I can't imagine that my woman dancing with male friend,exactly as you can't imagine that she make sex with him.

Some people may agree that his wife make a massage by male too lol .
If next few years all world agree that their wives make a massage by male, should you follow them ?
 

Terrywoodenpic

Oldest Heretic
That's it all the world had different opinion on these issues.

even If my wife make a contact in my knowledge that's does not mean I should agree with .

For me If she had contact with her male friends with my agree, I would not blame her that she could on cheat on me, because I just make it easy to her.

I can't imagine that my woman dancing with male friend,exactly as you can't imagine that she make sex with him.

Some people may agree that his wife make a massage by male too lol .
If next few years all world agree that their wives make a massage by male, should you follow them ?

Every thing you say about women seems to revolve about sex.
can you not think of women as just friends.
It is not normal for men to massage women, though I see no problem in an open massage parlour however not in a private one. Much in the way male and female doctors are required to treat both men and women. As do chiropractors and physiotherapists.
When you go to to the doctors surgery or hospital you are as likely to be seen by either a male or female doctor or nurse. why should it even matter?
 

Wirey

Fartist
Didn't you say you were gay ( on another thread?)

Anyhow, This Thread interests me because less than 24 hours ago I just found out what the word cuckold means from a different website. I wonder if this is a sign from Allah:D

I'm not gay, I'm just uber friendly.
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
I do believe that most of human being are jealous, they are live in their homes not in prisons.

I do believe that many women prefer the jealousy man than careless man.
Okay, try to think about this. The ones here trying to establish that jealousy in a relationship is a good thing are men. The ones that would, through jealousy, control in their relationships are men. You believe that women want a jealous man probably because that is all you know and were led to believe that. It also works to your advantage and allows you to be jealous and, therefore, in control of the relationship through emotional manipulation. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you, flat out, it is NOT a desirable trait in a man. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you what it feels like to deal with the jealousy of her ex-husband. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you the other side of the relationship feels awful, judged, controlled, manipulated, cut off, stifled. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you...jealousy is NOT something we desire in a relationship. I hated living like that. Hated having my then husband jealous and suspicious of every move I make. I felt awful in that relationship. It does not feel good to have a man jealous over you all the time. I felt untrusted, disrespected, manipulated, belittled, and more. My current husband, we have been together for over 10 years now and I am happy. I'm respected, trusted, treated as an equal, and I actually feel loved.

I don't know if this, what I'm saying, will truly make any impact on you and how you feel about this. Your culture and beliefs have been ingrained in you to think that that is what a woman wants. But I'm telling you, from a woman's side, it is unwanted. Trust is better than jealousy. Period.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
Every thing you say about women seems to revolve about sex.
can you not think of women as just friends.
It is not normal for men to massage women, though I see no problem in an open massage parlour however not in a private one. Much in the way male and female doctors are required to treat both men and women. As do chiropractors and physiotherapists.
When you go to to the doctors surgery or hospital you are as likely to be seen by either a male or female doctor or nurse. why should it even matter?
Since there is instinct,I personally don't believe much in friendship between man and woman, because that friendship could easly extend to other step, especially when they become alone.
It's exist but for my opinion it's rare.

-Doctors it's duty not forcely could extend to friendship ... that maybe could not be a big deal whatever gender.

-I perfer the good doctor ,whatever doctor gender.

-Just curious ,do you consider who let his woman doing massage by man in private, as cuckold ?
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
Okay, try to think about this. The ones here trying to establish that jealousy in a relationship is a good thing are men. The ones that would, through jealousy, control in their relationships are men. You believe that women want a jealous man probably because that is all you know and were led to believe that. It also works to your advantage and allows you to be jealous and, therefore, in control of the relationship through emotional manipulation. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you, flat out, it is NOT a desirable trait in a man. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you what it feels like to deal with the jealousy of her ex-husband. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you the other side of the relationship feels awful, judged, controlled, manipulated, cut off, stifled. Here, in me, you have a woman telling you...jealousy is NOT something we desire in a relationship. I hated living like that. Hated having my then husband jealous and suspicious of every move I make. I felt awful in that relationship. It does not feel good to have a man jealous over you all the time. I felt untrusted, disrespected, manipulated, belittled, and more. My current husband, we have been together for over 10 years now and I am happy. I'm respected, trusted, treated as an equal, and I actually feel loved.

I don't know if this, what I'm saying, will truly make any impact on you and how you feel about this. Your culture and beliefs have been ingrained in you to think that that is what a woman wants. But I'm telling you, from a woman's side, it is unwanted. Trust is better than jealousy. Period.
I don't think that every women like the man who don't care, not jealous at all .

The problem is not I just could trust my wife, how I suppose trust her male friends ?!

I wish you good luck with your actual husband.
EDITED TO ADD:

I would trust my wife,but I would jealousy if someone try to contact or dance or hug her.
 
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Terrywoodenpic

Oldest Heretic
Since there is instinct,I personally don't believe much in friendship between man and woman, because that friendship could easly extend to other step, especially when they become alone.
It's exist but for my opinion it's rare.

-Doctors it's duty not forcely could extend to friendship ... that maybe could not be a big deal whatever gender.

-I perfer the good doctor ,whatever doctor gender.

-Just curious ,do you consider who let his woman doing massage by man in private, as cuckold ?

It is possable that a private massage could be entirely innocent, but it can be just a sexual encounter.
I do not think in terms of a cuckold, it is a very old fashioned concept and not used much for perhaps 200 years.

from your answer you expect a male doctor to use self control when examining and treating your wife.

we expect all men to use self control when with women. They should make no sexual advances unless invited.
To make unwanted sexual advances is also against the law.

As they say there is a time and place for everything, and how we should behave toward women is learnt at a very early age.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
It is possable that a private massage could be entirely innocent, but it can be just a sexual encounter.
I do not think in terms of a cuckold, it is a very old fashioned concept and not used much for perhaps 200 years.

from your answer you expect a male doctor to use self control when examining and treating your wife.

we expect all men to use self control when with women. They should make no sexual advances unless invited.
To make unwanted sexual advances is also against the law.

As they say there is a time and place for everything, and how we should behave toward women is learnt at a very early age.

Private massage could be innocent, that's in heaven maybe !
It's cuckold used until today , I just google it , seems it's relate to porn lol

I perfer that my wife examining by female , but in urgent cases thats would be male. we both btw.

So whom cheating are losing self control.
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
It's adultery if the other partner disapproves or is unaware; it's a betrayal of trust and commitment. It's an "open relationship" if it's allowed by the other partner; all involved are consenting adults in agreement.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
For your opinion what is different between cuckold and carelless ?

If you genuinely love someone -- if you are not pretending to love someone, but genuinely love them -- then you care enough about them to want what is best for them. You want the best for them, and you do not allow such petty emotions as jealousy to get in the way of your wanting the best for them.

Foolish people say jealousy is a sign of love. But jealousy arises out of fear and possessiveness, and where there is fear and possessiveness, there is not love: There is at most emotional dependency.

do you agree that jealousy is opposite of the cuckold ?

Absolutely not. Many people who have been cuckolded were jealous.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
If you genuinely love someone -- if you are not pretending to love someone, but genuinely love them -- then you care enough about them to want what is best for them. You want the best for them, and you do not allow such petty emotions as jealousy to get in the way of your wanting the best for them.

Foolish people say jealousy is a sign of love. But jealousy arises out of fear and possessiveness, and where there is fear and possessiveness, there is not love: There is at most emotional dependency.



Absolutely not. Many people who have been cuckolded were jealous.
I think this is very complicate subject and had very different opinion and understanding.

I believe when someone love woman , so he become automatically jealousy for her, he don't want anyone to be in relation with her , especially physical , like dance or sex or massage ..etc .

When you really love , you care really.

-How is someone be a jealous (he don't want no one touch his wife) and cuckold in same time !!?
 

ADigitalArtist

Veteran Member
Staff member
Premium Member
This has been an interesting thread. I can't say I would enjoy living in a community where even having opposite-sex friends makes you a subject of suspicion or ridicule.

Just curious ,do you consider who let his woman doing massage by man in private, as cuckold ?

As a physical therapist assistant and massage therapist I massage both men and women all day as part of my job. Just like doctors, I am not there to provide sexual gratification, I am there to help treat soft tissue injury.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
Cuckold... sounds like name of an evil witch!

Ah, perhaps different cultures have different meaning of cuckold. Some strict views even consider men who are fine with women talking to other men on telephone cuckolds.
This is correct , and I do agree with.

let my wife talking to have fun (sexy discuss) with strangers is cuckold.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
As a physical therapist assistant and massage therapist I massage both men and women all day as part of my job. Just like doctors, I am not there to provide sexual gratification, I am there to help treat soft tissue injury.
Are male or female ?

Do you think this job could lead to privet relation between the masseur and woman or opposite?
 

ADigitalArtist

Veteran Member
Staff member
Premium Member
Are male or female ?

Do you think this job could lead to privet relation between the masseur and woman or opposite?
I am female and no, I am happily married and have no desire to engage in sexual behavior with a client which would not only be a huge ethical breach that I vehemently oppose but I would also lose my license.

I also receive monthly massage as part of my benefits package and will get massage from either men or women, whoever I think will address my pain better. It does not bother my husband that I sometimes get massage from a male therapist because he knows me, knows why I get massage and why the other therapists wouldn't approach me sexually.
 
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