If you would like to unpack your thoughts more, I would welcome it. No rush, though.
Okay, unpacking it is. I will start with this one: One of classical laws of logic as per Aristotle in the ontological and psychological sense.
"It is impossible that the same thing belong and not belong to the same thing at the same time and in the same respect."
"No one can believe that the same thing can (at the same time) be and not be."
Now here it is in the absurd sense for time, space and respect. A is A, right? Well, yes, no and in some sense only. If we reduce away time and space, these As are the same. If we keep different time and space, they are not the same. They are only similar in the respect of being As.
Now for the psychology of it. While that which is objective can't be changed by thinking differently about it, if it is subjective, someone could be thinking differently. Hence for X is Y or not Y, if in both cases further behavior follows based on both of them and both cases are with behavior, which can actually happen, you can get the following happening:
Some as e.g.: The world is natural.
Me: No, not just in one respect.
Someone: But it is a contradiction.
Well, not really, because it is that someone thinks that the world is natural and not and that contradiction in thinking doesn't make sense. But it is not a contradiction because natural is not in the same respect for all cases in time and space.
So I as a skeptic always try to do the words not just as thinking them but doing them as other behavior. The problem is the same for God and natural. They are both subjective concepts and abstracts, which are only real if you believe in one of them. I don't believe in any of them, because I don't have to.
So which is better?
I believe both in natural and God.
I believe in one and not the other.
I believe in neither.
Well, here is the test. Can you observe that there are humans, who individually fit of of the 4? Yes! Can they do it? Yes. Can they act further? Yes, e.g. I am doing it right now.
So what is the joke? What is going on? Well, the world is the set of all cases of in the respect of time and place and further cases of in other respects, but nobody have been able to reduce away the subjective, because if they claim that they can do it, they are doing the following:
They subjectively think that they are doing it objectively, but if I can do it differently, I do it. Hence - No, I can think subjectively different than them and further act differently. Indeed I am doing it now..
And now back to better! How do you experience better? Can you see it, feel by touch or by any other external sensory experience it? No, you experience it in your mind. Can you calibrate a scientific instrument to measure better? No, there is no scientific measurement standard for better.
So here it is with fancy philosophy terms. While apparently the world is physical, the mental/mind/subjective is caused by the physical and supervenes on it, but it can't be done physically. It can only be done by thinking/feeling in brains and if I can use my brain differently than you, then it is not a contradiction, because it is not at the same time and place.
So if I can do what matters, what makes sense and what is real to me differently than you, to you then that is not unique to us. That is so for all humans with a sufficiently function brain.
In philosophy that is an old one: Protagoras - "Man is the measurement of what is, as it is and what is not, as it is not."
Measurement is including better as what matters, what makes sense and what is real subjectively.
So if your epistemologies are better to you and you claim they are so for all humans, I as a skeptic just test if I can get away with thinking/feeling differently and further act on it. Just as I am doing now.
Regards
Mikkel