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What brought you to your religion

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
.. it is the ancient patriarchal customs that are rooted in the perspective that men are more important than women and that the latter need to stay indoors and be wary about every man who is not her husband or relative.
The lineage may be paternal (for most Hindus, Manipuris are matriarchal), but women rule us. Grandmas, mothers, wives, then daughters. The force is with them for many Hindus. Can I disobey my wife when she bans non-veg. during festivals, does not want me to consume liquor, gives me two cigarettes a day to manage? No, not even in my dreams. :D
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
Pretty unorthodox by most definitions, I should imagine.
It is not. I have quoted Nasadiya sukta of the RigVeda which says Gods are later than the creation of the universe (perhaps earlier than 1,000 BCE). Then, Buddha, Charvaks, Ajivakas, the Upanishads, Samkhya's 'Nirishwaravada', Vaisheshika's insistence on atoms, Advaita of Gaudapada in 7th Century and that of Sankara in the 8th. Read about Hindu Atheism at Hindu atheism - Wikipedia.
 

Sirona

Hindu Wannabe
I'm just being courious.

What brought you to your religion?
What sets it apart from the others that intrigued you to choose that one?

I am from a Christian / secular background but as a kid, I was seriously interested in practices of Greek mythology. For example, I dreamt of decorating statues with wreaths of flowers and "sacrificing" things to them such as candles and flowers. My religion allow me to do that without denouncing it as "idolatry".

The version of my religion which I follow takes a strong stance against atheism and blind materialism / "work ethic". I would qualify the stance about materialism today, since even a religion can cost money, but I was raised by atheists with the clear expectation of becoming an atheist, too. I never really understood the sense of slaving away until you fall into the coffin. I always knew there had to be "more".

Chanting mantras gave me a spiritual experience, it was the only (element of) religion which really affected me emotionally and which, for me, had a quality beyond "this religious doctrine is true" or "this religious doctrine is false".
 

Vinayaka

devotee
Premium Member
I'm just being courious.

What brought you to your religion?
What sets it apart from the others that intrigued you to choose that one?

I didn't choose it. Imagine you're walking a long the street, and a member of the human species gets attracted to you, and says, 'wanna go for coffee?' and you say okay. Over that coffee you realise you have a lot in common, you instantly click, the two of you date, then later get married.

Was that a choice?
 

RestlessSoul

Well-Known Member
I didn't choose it. Imagine you're walking a long the street, and a member of the human species gets attracted to you, and says, 'wanna go for coffee?' and you say okay. Over that coffee you realise you have a lot in common, you instantly click, the two of you date, then later get married.

Was that a choice?



That is a most profound question. How a person would choose to answer it, would say a lot about their worldview. Depending, of course, on the extent to which their answer was ever a matter of choice...
 

George-ananda

Advaita Vedanta, Theosophy, Spiritualism
Premium Member
I'm just being courious.

What brought you to your religion?
What sets it apart from the others that intrigued you to choose that one?
More than any one 'religion' I find people today are more apt to choose their own beliefs on individual issues which is more like a 'cafeteria style' religion where they choose the items that work for them.

For me I describe my religion best as Spiritualism, Theosophy, Advaita (non-dual Hinduism) as my fascination with the paranormal/spiritual led to a wanting to understand 'how this can be' and went with the teachings that supplied the most reasonable answers.
 

George-ananda

Advaita Vedanta, Theosophy, Spiritualism
Premium Member
Christianity is just the truth, simple, and I believed it and not the others around as I was growing up.
Christianity has a spectrum from conservative to liberal in my experience. How would you describe the version you follow?
 

Vinayaka

devotee
Premium Member
That is a most profound question. How a person would choose to answer it, would say a lot about their worldview. Depending, of course, on the extent to which their answer was ever a matter of choice...

I realise the standard worldview with regard to seeking out a religion is to make a choice. That was never the way I viewed it, any more than the colour of your eyes, or your height. The soul that is 'I' had an inner 'genetic' predisposition to Saiva esoteric Hinduism, and rediscovered it.
 

URAVIP2ME

Veteran Member
I'm just being courious. What brought you to your religion? What sets it apart from the others that intrigued you to choose that one?
One day I met an older man who simply said to me, " I have good news for you." Then he read me Ecclesiastes 1:4 B that Earth abides forever.
In school I was taught Earth will be destroyed.
In church I was taught Earth will be destroyed.
So, I wanted to know more because both thoughts can't be right.
I came to learn what God has in store about our future:
Contrary to those doom's day teachers (school and church) the Bible assures us Earth is permanent - Psalms 104:5
God steps in when men are in the process of bringing ruin to Earth - Revelation 11:18 B; Psalms 92:7; Proverbs 2:21-22.
God will involve Himself into corrupted mankind's affairs having Jesus step in - Isaiah 11:3-4; Revelation 19:14-15.
It will be God's heavenly government (Daniel 2:44) who will rid the Earth of the wicked.
The future of the wicked will be cut off, Not the Earth - Psalms 37:10.
At Jesus' coming Glory Time (Matthew 25:31-33) the future for the upright is secure - Psalms 37:11; Psalms 37:37-38
The figurative humble 'sheep' (Matthew 25:37) can remain on Earth, an Earth that abides forever.
 

Truthseeker

Non-debating member when I can help myself
I had my eldest son, LeeAnder, when I was 21; it was an unexpected pregnancy with a person I wouldn't have deliberately chosen to have a child with(he was an angry person, and became abusive over time).
I was 37 when my son Michael was born. In contrast my wife is a loving person. We had tried for years to have a child, before Michael there was a miscarriage, and my wife grieved over that child partly because she was so excited to have that first child, partly because I was the father of that child. Before we got married my father told my wife and me not to have a baby because in my family there was something mysterious going on with my brothers. Something was wrong and they were sent all the way to NIH in Washington to find out what was wrong. My younger brother had trouble walking, I remember and was angry at my parents constantly, and also timid about life. He couldn't relate to women, he never married, never held a decent job in his life, and mercifully died in 2010. My older brother when he went to graduate school suddenly broke down completely. He was very slow in everything, he drove me crazy! As life went on he became paranoid, had little in the way of jobs, and never married like my other brother. He couldn't relate to women, and yearned until the end to have a wife. He mercifully died in 2017.

My wife didn't want a baby originally, wanted to adopt, but I wanted a biological connection. To please me we had Michael. In the early years after he was diagnosed she was understandably upset. Now she's proud I'm his father.
We didn't really know anything was up until after age 2. He had some weird quirks; even as an infant, he'd fuss if a button on his clothes was undone, and as soon as he could walk, he ran around making sure all doors and cupboards were shut. He didn't play with toys, he played with spoons and broken phones. He didn't talk much. Occasionally, he'd talk a word or two. I remember hearing him say hello to the cat, and telling his dad this, but he didn't believe me. He could speak, he just chose not to, until about 7, when the wonderful world of politics fascinated him and he fretted to all who would hear it that the government was out to get his money. He's on the Asperger's end of things(though I don't think they use that term anymore). He had some OCD traits that got really messy. He about starved himself because there was always something wrong with his food. He would see bugs in it that wasn't there. He also got stressed over loud noises to the point that he would become violent. I remember he punched me in the back of the head once when I was driving because I was driving in the direction of town that had all the train tracks. He eventually learned to manage this fear, and we had his 12th birthday party at a park right next to the trainyard to celebrate.
When we travelled to Florida to see my wife's family we stopped on the way in Georgia to visit friends, and they had a young toddler who was speaking though he was 6 months younger while Michael at age two wasn't talking. I was alarmed! There were warning signs before this but I had ignored them. One thing I noticed about Michael was that he would run back and forth outside, apparently looking at his reflection in the windows. Up until even age 16 when he left us he would eat very limited foods. Any other foods was poison to him. This reminds me of your son son starving over unacceptable food. He only would drink water. Anything else he would make a face, then refuse to drink anymore. He twirled plastic lids on the floor. I should have connected that to the TV show where this young boy twirled plates. He didn't advance in how he played with his toys. He said a few words when he was 6 - 9 months, then he stopped. He engaged with us in a lively way, then it was as if he didn't have that life any more. It was less obvious then, but we have pictures of him that show that. It snuck up on us gradually. I have heard that autism sets in at about 1 year old.

Temple Grandin in an account I read also couldn't abide loud noises. Good to see that LeeAnder evolved to tolerate loud noises. Each autistic person is different, Michael wasn't like that.

I am ignorant about the difference between autism and Asperger's. I looked up descriptions of both and couldn't tell them apart. I saw a psychiatrist who was substituting for one day and his impression was that I had Asperger's. I hadn't even suggested I was on the spectrum. That is a sna judgement, however.
 
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