Not sure what your point would be on this.
I suppose my point is that emotional relationships are never very cut and dry.
My wife becomes a bit insecure if I don`t respond to her sexual advances the way I normally do.
While she is much better about it than she used to be there are many reasons for this.
Trust issues with men in general...
Every male from her father to her brothers to even now her sons have given her reason to be very suspicious of any mans agenda.
Yes, I am also included in that group of males.
Societies expectations of her..
She was raised as many women are, to believe in a fairy tale instead of reality.
The white knight will come and sweep her away to safety, happiness, and perfection.
Marriage should be perfect bliss for the rest of ones life.
This is rampant throughout our culture.
Fail to meet that fairy tale expectation and you`ve got personal beliefs directly contradicting reality.
She is a special prize and sex is a special act meant only for the one you love and can also be used as a weapon against the one you love.
This one is a killer of many relationships.
I could go on and on naming the unrealistic concepts fed to young girls in their formative years concerning sex and relationships but I think these will do for now.
Now I don`t want to give the impression my wife is a helpless subject to all of these influences because she`s not.
However they are there and they can be confusing when a woman is on her own in the real world and realizes what she`s been taught is not what reality is.
Ironically the birth of our daughter seems to have given my wife the ability to see through all this crap she was fed as a child.
My own awareness of these issues has also allowed me to be particularly sensitive to them and I like to think that has helped.
Many many western women are victims of this same type of upbringing.
Edit:
The very concept of this Op are the result of the cultural realities I`ve mentioned.
"Wifely Duties"...*** is that?