if you don't have clear distinction your bi
This is so incorrect. If someone is sexually ambivalent, you don't automatically label them 'bi-sexual'. The way we categorize people is crude and insulting.
What if someone was sexually abused? That would certainly bring up hesitations towards sex. Some people are naturally uncomfortable about sex. These things don't qualify them as NOT BEING HETEROSEXUAL.
It's so stupid to say that confused = bisexual. That is the 100% wrong answer.
This is the problem I have with our current view of sexuality. We want to put it into four little boxes (hetero, homo, bi, trans) when in reality the latter two are hardly consistent, if at all. Why isn't it possible, as Stephen is possibly suggesting, that it is POSSIBLE for most people to swing one way or the other.
Say you're a man, isolated from women for 20 YEARS! Does that not increase the chance that he will find himself attracted to men? And if a girl grows up with a strong father and is blessed with having extremely positive relationships with boys, does that not make it more likely that she will not consider homosexuality as an option?
I'm not arguing against whether or not sexuality is genetic (of course it is, to a degree)(although now we have seven-year-olds saying they are homosexual, which is stupid and doesn't make sense). I'm arguing that environment CERTAINLY is a huge factor in whether or not homosexuality is considered. Consideration does indeed play a huge role in whether or not someone adopts a homosexual lifestyle.
So with that in mind, how do you know that you (if you are a heterosexual) would never at any point
consider homosexuality? And even if you think you know the answer, how do you know that, if your life had been different, you might answer differently?