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Would you date a fat chick?
- Thread starter Nanda
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nutshell
Well-Known Member
All I can say is that my girlfriend is rock hard [maybe limestone] in the abdominal area and I don't think anything flimsier, be it a factor of too much weight or too little, could turn me on as much.
But that has no bearing on dating.
Have you ever found the size of the girl to interfere with your use of a lightsabre?
Ãanisty
Well-Known Member
Ditto. Most of the guys I've dated were very thin.
Did she put a gun to your head and make you over eat?
(that is to say, people are responsible for their own bodies):run:
Nanda
Polyanna
Did she put a gun to your head and make you over eat?
I think what he's saying is that she GAVE HIM A CHUBBY. *wink wink*
Nanda
Polyanna
Though my preferred type is usually rail thin, like I mentioned, not only would I date a guy like that, I married a guy like that. I even had his baby.
Looks aren't everything.
Though truth be told, while I wasn't attracted to him for a long time, I think he's adorable now.
Buttercup
Veteran Member
I think he got so excited thinking about it he worded it wrong. hehe
A long time ago at work, a few females were talking (I was part of the group, but as usual did not say much). They asking each other if they would date or marry a bald man. They said no way (not me, I said I would, if he were nice). I suddenly became curious and asked them if the man went bald later down the line, would you leave him? One of the young ladies said yes. I was younger and still mean and told her I thought that was shallow. Sometimes I wonder if I said the wrong thing.
Sometimes I wonder if I said the wrong thing.
Nanda
Polyanna
No, you're right, that's incredibly shallow. I wonder where she'll be when her youth fades.
Ciscokid
Well-Known Member
Buttercup
Veteran Member
Of course I heartily agree. However, there has to be some sort of physical attraction for a relationship to last because as the years go by the sexual chemistry definitely diminishes some. Love might become stronger but body familiarity breeds lackluster desire of sorts.
Blindinglight
Disciple of Chaos
It depends. IMO, weight says alot about a persons personality. Anorexic and the grossly over weight, in my eyes, says the person really doesn't care much about there body. When you can see your bones or wear pants big enough to fit two, three, or more people in, you have some serious problems.
But, alittle extra weight I do not mind.
But, alittle extra weight I do not mind.
Nanda
Polyanna
I would argue that anorexics care too much about their body, or at least, how their body is perceived; That's just the problem.
As for the overweight, you're not taking into account people who are heavy because of genetics, or *gasp* fat people who might actually like their bodies. If I'm a size 24, I exercise and I think I look beautiful, can you honestly say that I don't care about my body?
Nanda
Polyanna
But like I said, if you love a person, they can become attractive to you. This was the case with my husband, and we've been together for 12 years now.
Buttercup
Veteran Member
Right, but you made mention that you weren't physically attracted to him for a long time, probably not until you fell in love with him, correct? In that case, love was the catalyst so the physical attraction was delayed. I get it and I've been there. It really doesn't matter when the physical attraction takes place as long as it happens.
From my own experiences I can say that I wasn't physically attracted much at all to my first husband but fell in love enough to marry him. Now, that I'm remarried and very happy, I can look back and say there wasn't enough attraction or strong feelings of love for that relationship to last. Live and learn.