If you think that people make themselves believe in something they know does not exist then you are missing a lot.
What seems obvious to you may not be so to me. If you want to unserstand anothers point of view you need to listen to it.
I have listened. I grew up Catholic, and went to Catholic school for 8 years. I've had many discussions with my mother in recent years, among others. I understand the mindset. I know that you can't make yourself believe something. That's an argument I've used before for the case against Christianity in particular. If I can't make myself believe something, then how could God expect me to believe or have faith when I have no good reason to?
To me the big difference is that I've seen the other point of view, and understand it. I can look at it objectively, though. I can also see the other side, and have found that this side has much fewer contradictions and problems.
I've also looked at the progression of religion. The point of this thread was to discuss why organized religion came up in the first place. First people ascribed anything they couldn't understand to a group higher beings, or gods that controlled different aspects of the world. At some point, somebody came up with the idea that instead of a group of gods, there was only one god with omnipotence. It seems that the original reason for this notion is to explain worldly things that couldn't be understood otherwise. Over the years, people added their own ideas and organized religions came out of it. As religions grew, some of the ideas that were added in along the way started to contradict each other. As these contradictions came up, people needed to rationalize them, and so made up even more stories and rules to keep their beliefs making sense, until it got to the modern point where people believe only because people have taught it for thousands of years.
I just don't understand how anyone can look at most organized religions and not realize that most of what they're teaching has been made up along the way by humans, and only began because someone at some point needed a way to explain a storm.
I was talking to someone who obviously doesn't understand my view, just like many Christians, because she still thinks it's sad that I don't believe in God. I don't think her life is sad just because she believes in God
precisely because I understand her point of view.