Yes, sadly, and the reason I started this thread was summarised in post #9. I happened to speak with a psychiatrist friend this morning at our temple, and I asked him for advice on how Average Joe should deal with it in real life. He said non-judgemental listening was the standard practice. That ... and he said, in his business it's pretty common.My apologies, but I'm having a hard time understanding your point. What does GD have to do with anything here?