I couldn't find the news article but it's about the couple that held a new years party for their kids that included 50 kids and they supplied the alchohol, yet took away the keys so they couldn't drive.
It was on the O'Reilly Factor.
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Am I the only one with this thinking?
Not at all; I have brought up my children with much the same attitude that my parents had towards me.
I remember smoking at home (whilst on holiday from the boarding school which was where I had learned to smoke); I used to smoke in the bathroom, and flush away the evidence, whilst using the fan to extract the smell of the cigarettes.
I remember feeling embarassed and foolish when I absent mindedly left a cigarette end lying around in the bathroom. My mother said"Look, if you really want to smoke, why hide it from us? - you might as well do it in front of us".
Of course, in that particular case, I was already a smoker, and so the exercise , well meant as it was, was wasted on me.
My parents took the same stance on alcohol, and offered me some to taste; obviously it was a Grown up thing to do, they seemed to enjoy it therefore it must be fun....etc.
I hated it; they gave me a very powerful tiny shot of a heavily distilled liquor called 'Goute'- the French for 'drop' because it needed to be sipped by the drop, literally.
No I don't think you are at all wrong Rex, you would merely take the 'naughty fun' out of an excercise that is going to happen anyway !!