A couple of days ago, I was doing grocery shopping at a nearby store. The checkout line was moderately long (several people with a lot of items), and one of them paid with a credit card. The card machine froze for a minute and caused a delay, which led to one of the customers huffing and then telling the cashier, "You're wasting time for no reason. You have all day now" before storming out of the door.
The cashier looked visibly upset but said nothing. I'm sure she has seen a lot of rude customers, but this still seemed so petty to me. She's standing there all day, getting paid peanuts, and dealing with all kinds of attitudes from customers who think they're entitled to mistreat her because they've bought a few items. The problem with the card machine wasn't even her fault or something she could control.
She seemed thankful when it was my turn and I calmly repeated my phone number to her because she didn't hear me clearly the first time. I felt bad for her; this should be the norm, not something to be thankful for as if it were an accomplishment.
Have you seen a lot of rudeness or mistreatment targeting retail or service workers where you live? If so, what do you think motivates most of it?
The cashier looked visibly upset but said nothing. I'm sure she has seen a lot of rude customers, but this still seemed so petty to me. She's standing there all day, getting paid peanuts, and dealing with all kinds of attitudes from customers who think they're entitled to mistreat her because they've bought a few items. The problem with the card machine wasn't even her fault or something she could control.
She seemed thankful when it was my turn and I calmly repeated my phone number to her because she didn't hear me clearly the first time. I felt bad for her; this should be the norm, not something to be thankful for as if it were an accomplishment.
Have you seen a lot of rudeness or mistreatment targeting retail or service workers where you live? If so, what do you think motivates most of it?