Agnostic75
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In another thread, nekoboy posted the following link:
Amazon.com: Born That Way?: A True Story of Overcoming Same-Sex Attraction With Insights for Friends, Families, and Leaders (9780875798356): Erin Eldridge: Books
So-called "reparative therapy" attempts to basically turn homosexuals into heterosexuals. Perhaps the leading exponent of reparative therapy in the U.S. is NARTH (National Association for Research and Therapy for Homosexuals).
I will present some of my arguments against, and for reparative therapy.
Arguments against reparative therapy
Argument #1
Reparative therapy is criticized by virtually all leading medical organizations.
Argument #2
It has been proven that at least on some occasions, reparative therapy has harmed some individuals.
Argument #3
Even some opponents of homosexuality, who support reparative therapy, including Stanton Jones, Ph.D., psychology, Mark Yarhouse, Ph.D., psychology, and Paul Cameron, Ph.D., psychology, have admitted that reparative therapy generally works only about 30% of the time, and most frequently by far among religiously motivated homosexuals. If statistics were only for homosexuals who were not religiously motivated, the 30% statistic would be much lower.
Argument #4
Many supposedly "cured" former homosexuals have admitted that many of the old urges are still there.
Argument #5
In a case where reparative therapy does not work for John Smith (hypothetical person), John has at least two options, to continue to have gay sex, or to practice celibacy for life. In some cases, attempts to give up sex for life result in serious physical and emotional harm. That is understandable since the desire to have sex is generally very strong in humans. In such cases, it is not reasonable to practice celibacy for life.
Arguments for reparative therapy
Argument #1
Some homosexuals (usually religious homosexuals) who have tried reparative therapy have become able to have children, and claim that they are much happier than when they were practicing homosexuals. With a supposedly angry God for motivation, that is not surprising. Still, it is better to be happy than to be sad, so in those cases, I believe that it is appropriate for homosexuals to try reparative therapy. But, since the results of reparative therapy cannot be known in advance, I actually only approve of it in cases where it ends up being successful in the opinions of homoseuxals who try it.
Additional comments:
If a God exists, why would he oppose homosexuality, but cause over 1500 species of animals and birds to practice homosexuality? Almost all bonobo monkeys are bi-sexual.
I find it to be quite odd that a God would have a book of rules published by human proxies who presume to speak for him. First of all, the rules could only be helpful for people who knew about them. Many millions of people have died without ever having heard about the Bible.
Second, which group of Christians properly interprets the rules? Even Christians within the same denomination sometimes disagree, and split into two different denominations.
Third, even if a God inspired the original Bible, what evidence is there that he preserved most of it, including the parts about homosexuality?
Fourth, no book of rules could ever be large enough to cover all possible situations.
Amazon.com: Born That Way?: A True Story of Overcoming Same-Sex Attraction With Insights for Friends, Families, and Leaders (9780875798356): Erin Eldridge: Books
So-called "reparative therapy" attempts to basically turn homosexuals into heterosexuals. Perhaps the leading exponent of reparative therapy in the U.S. is NARTH (National Association for Research and Therapy for Homosexuals).
I will present some of my arguments against, and for reparative therapy.
Arguments against reparative therapy
Argument #1
Reparative therapy is criticized by virtually all leading medical organizations.
Argument #2
It has been proven that at least on some occasions, reparative therapy has harmed some individuals.
Argument #3
Even some opponents of homosexuality, who support reparative therapy, including Stanton Jones, Ph.D., psychology, Mark Yarhouse, Ph.D., psychology, and Paul Cameron, Ph.D., psychology, have admitted that reparative therapy generally works only about 30% of the time, and most frequently by far among religiously motivated homosexuals. If statistics were only for homosexuals who were not religiously motivated, the 30% statistic would be much lower.
Argument #4
Many supposedly "cured" former homosexuals have admitted that many of the old urges are still there.
Argument #5
In a case where reparative therapy does not work for John Smith (hypothetical person), John has at least two options, to continue to have gay sex, or to practice celibacy for life. In some cases, attempts to give up sex for life result in serious physical and emotional harm. That is understandable since the desire to have sex is generally very strong in humans. In such cases, it is not reasonable to practice celibacy for life.
Arguments for reparative therapy
Argument #1
Some homosexuals (usually religious homosexuals) who have tried reparative therapy have become able to have children, and claim that they are much happier than when they were practicing homosexuals. With a supposedly angry God for motivation, that is not surprising. Still, it is better to be happy than to be sad, so in those cases, I believe that it is appropriate for homosexuals to try reparative therapy. But, since the results of reparative therapy cannot be known in advance, I actually only approve of it in cases where it ends up being successful in the opinions of homoseuxals who try it.
Additional comments:
If a God exists, why would he oppose homosexuality, but cause over 1500 species of animals and birds to practice homosexuality? Almost all bonobo monkeys are bi-sexual.
I find it to be quite odd that a God would have a book of rules published by human proxies who presume to speak for him. First of all, the rules could only be helpful for people who knew about them. Many millions of people have died without ever having heard about the Bible.
Second, which group of Christians properly interprets the rules? Even Christians within the same denomination sometimes disagree, and split into two different denominations.
Third, even if a God inspired the original Bible, what evidence is there that he preserved most of it, including the parts about homosexuality?
Fourth, no book of rules could ever be large enough to cover all possible situations.
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