Because the level of Halachic observance that a Reform Rabbi would demand is not an acceptable level for conversion according to Orthodox standards.
First of all, I'm gonna be very brief for two reasons: one is that you know we're not going to agree, and two that I have to leave shortly.
To your point above, that's fine, imo, because I have no desire to become Orthodox.
The mistaken assumption that you are under, is that all arguments are equal...
I never stated nor implied that. What I can and will say is that no one branch or person has all the answers, so there's plenty of room for disagreement. Never did I imply that all paths or arguments are equal or correct.
This might be the academic approach to understanding what is going on. But its not the Orthodox one.
Whether it's the "Orthodox one" seems to me to be not really as important as having an "academic one". I'm a scientist, so what do you expect me to say?
Judaism is not a static religion nor ever was static. Even if one takes a literalistic approach to Torah, it's obvious that we were a work in progress, and I'll suggest that this evolution never stopped-- nor should it, imo.
No, that's not acceptable. Because that is not what Judaism is about. Judaism is the fulfillment of G-d's Will as expressed in the Halacha. For a reason: we were given Halacha by G-d in order to do it. We are here to perform G-d's will. That's our job. If someone is not following Halacha, the are not fulfilling G-d's Will and that means they are not being good Jews.
Halacha was also something that was and is a "work in progress". If not, then how does one explain the thousands of "idols" found in the highland area that we occupied during the 1st Temple period, for example? The "building a fence around Torah" wasn't always part of what we believed. A 1st Temple Jew would hardly recognize what they would have seen during the 2nd Temple period, and even less so with what they would see after the Great Diasporah.
But what's more important is how we look at Torah itself. If one assumes that Torah is entirely divinely inspired, then they'll draw certain conclusions based on that approach; but if one doesn't quite view it that way, then they'll likely come up with some different ideas. But here's the real catch: you cannot establish that Torah is divinely inspired in any way, and I cannot establish that it's not or maybe only somewhat divinely inspired. The reason is clear, namely that there's no objective evidence for either position.
Therefore, my position is to try to take the teachings, learn from them, and try to apply that which seems to make sense. And it's important to
me to question, while at the same time realizing that coming up with solid answers is gonna be difficult. As one who has worked within the scientific realm for roughly 50 years, this is what I'm used to doing, which includes realizing that which I cannot understand for whatever reason-- it's a very humbling field to be in.
I'm happy for you that you are happy with your choice though.
Ditto, and I have literally no problem with you and I disagreeing-- assuming of course that you eventually agree with me and repent!
Still friends?