DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
Look I dont want anyone to get the wrong idea..Im not saying "now you are grown get out"..Its DO SOMETHING to help yoru self and work TOWARDS getting out..
I too Alceste can know at 42 if something happened I could move into my parents house..or my sisters..or my husbands parents..Im of extended family..We have ALL helped each other out at times..
And Im not sayign its "easy" to go from 18 graduated highschool to completely independent includign getting higher educated..
Im saying don't just sit there and work a part time low end job and spend every penny you make for "fun" while drivign my car ..while we pay for his health insurance car insurance..food..water ..staples..
its hard? YEAH its hard ..its hard to support GROWN people that are young and whole life ahead of them to party and "chill"..While eatign our FOOD..We at our age by the way have to also be concerned with being able to care for OURSELVES if we become disabled and eventually one day???RETIRE!
Im not talking about throwing a kid out on the street..thats scratching around doing everything he can..Im talking about kids that seem to think they can sit back and "chill" on the mother and the fathers back..
Wandering around thinking time is apparently endless..
Im "chill"..Im in no rush..Im also more of a "spontaneous" gal..But this is beyond that..this is going on 3 years of living at my house..workign to earn enough money to buy gas to put in MY car to go to work to earn the money to go out to eat with friends..buy pot..GIVE his broke *** frinends RIDES to there suck *** jobs in MY car..Because guess what? THEY dont have a car!
ARGHH!!
Love
Dallas
I too Alceste can know at 42 if something happened I could move into my parents house..or my sisters..or my husbands parents..Im of extended family..We have ALL helped each other out at times..
And Im not sayign its "easy" to go from 18 graduated highschool to completely independent includign getting higher educated..
Im saying don't just sit there and work a part time low end job and spend every penny you make for "fun" while drivign my car ..while we pay for his health insurance car insurance..food..water ..staples..
its hard? YEAH its hard ..its hard to support GROWN people that are young and whole life ahead of them to party and "chill"..While eatign our FOOD..We at our age by the way have to also be concerned with being able to care for OURSELVES if we become disabled and eventually one day???RETIRE!
Im not talking about throwing a kid out on the street..thats scratching around doing everything he can..Im talking about kids that seem to think they can sit back and "chill" on the mother and the fathers back..
Wandering around thinking time is apparently endless..
Im "chill"..Im in no rush..Im also more of a "spontaneous" gal..But this is beyond that..this is going on 3 years of living at my house..workign to earn enough money to buy gas to put in MY car to go to work to earn the money to go out to eat with friends..buy pot..GIVE his broke *** frinends RIDES to there suck *** jobs in MY car..Because guess what? THEY dont have a car!
ARGHH!!
Love
Dallas
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