It's a so-so list of questions. There are better ones that are less... well, maybe it's better to let the better questions speak for themselves:
The OP questions were low-hanging fruit questions. These are higher-hanging, and deserve more consideration. As I promised before that if nobody else answered these questions, I'd pick them up and answer them from a historical perspective from myself. After 7 pages of replies and no responses to this, I'll offer my thoughts to these now.
- Conceptions of god vary tremendously among different types of theism. Which ideas about god to you reject, and why? What does it mean to reject these conceptions of god?
For me, what made me begin to identify as atheist was the whole literalization of the anthropomorphic images of God coming out of the Christian mythos. I found these images of a God who got mad, kept tally sheets of who gets to go to heaven or be sent to hell, impossible and contradictory stories taken as factual history (Noah's Ark, for example). All these forced people to deny reason and science, as well as ethical and moral questions (sending people to hell forever for not believing in doctrines). I considered all this to be against truth itself, in the interest of selfish, self-preservation in the face of a their own existential fears.
To deny facts, to bury one's head in the sand in order to preserve one's beliefs, was to me a denial of the God they claimed to worship and believe in. Since I knew of no alternative, and since I considered that type of belief system to be against truth, I ended up taking a stand against it. I actively disbelieved it. Hence, I began identifying as an atheist.
What did it mean to reject these? Freedom. Freedom to reason. Freedom to explore. Freedom to choose. Freedom to love for no other reason than love itself.
- Conceptions of god typically relate to a culture's highest values or principles. What are your deeply held values or principles? Aren't these principles the functional equivalent of honoring gods?
My most deeply held values and beliefs, frankly come from the "baby" part of the Christian ethos, without the "bathwater" of mythic-literal beliefs. "Love your neighbor as yourself" captured the whole underlying basis for civil, and compassionate human society. To "love your neighbor as yourself", means you will do no harm to them. "Love works no ill", say the Bible.
Yet of course, what I experienced from the religion was not that at all. It was "we've got the truth, and God will send everyone to hell that doesn't believe like us. It's our job to convert them and get them to believe like we do, so God can save them". That is at its core, a contradiction to Love. Someone does not need to identify as a Christian, in order to recognize the moral truth and value of the 'golden rule' as a philosophy of life.
Are these the equivalent of honoring the gods which symbolize these? In essence, yes. I can understand this now of course. I can relate it to verses from the Bible which point right to this. It's not those who claim to believe in God, but those who actually do "the will of the Father", that are truly the children of God, or followers of Love.
I see that destroying the whole "belief in God" claim, as it can easily be said that atheists who love according to this principle, are more "children of God", than the self-righteous believers who cites the Bible all day long how right they are and how wrong everyone else is, and do not show actual love in their hearts for others, let alone in their actions. Some atheists are far better "Christians" than a whole lot of Christians are, if they actually live according the law of love in their life.
"Belief in God" as a theological idea, is truly unimportant. It's not what you say, but what you do. Compassion, not belief is what matters to the universe. Atheists can easily be more "children of God" by being truthful, sincere, honest, loving, compassionate, and forgiving, than all the "believers" in the world rolled up together who don't do any of those in their life. "True believerism" is an excuse, or an escape from being a loving human being.
- Conceptions of god are often conveyed in ways that embrace artful use of creative expression, but taking these expressions literally can be a problem and is often not intended. If you approached religious mythology as a creative exercise, how might your acceptance of gods change?
That is exactly what I have done. Thank you for raising these pointed, and very insightful questions. How I see these images of deity forms, or the image of God itself in our stories, our mythologies, is an expression of the highest aspirations of truth within ourselves. In essence, we create God, in order for us to believe in God, in order for us to become God. There is a great deal to unpack in understanding how this all works.
In other words, we hold forth a symbol of "Goodness" in order for us to attempt to transcend our lower selves as the dominant center of our lives, and become guided by our higher selves, which are more moral, compassionate, empathetic, and understanding, than the lower impulses of greed and self-interested desires.
When we understand that this is the nature, and power of symbolism, we can avail ourselves of this if we wish, without it being a violation of higher reason (ie, science denial). These is an actual rational reason to engage in symbolic rituals and forms. It goes beyond simply using reason alone, and engages the whole person, rather than only the logic calculating brain functions. It engages the wings of the heart through imagination. Excessive rationality, in this regard, can be just as much a form of escapism as true believerism is, as it does not engage the whole person either. Both are centered in the conceptual mind, which is only one aspect of our humanness.
In this context, engaging with symbolic reality is utterly supportable logically, reasonably, and rationally as this is how humans have learned as an effective path to transcend themselves. Of course, that's not to say it is the only way available, or that everyone who does this does grow spiritually in their humanity, but it certainly can be an effective path as humans have used these this way for eons. Symbols exist everywhere, and they do the same things, some for the purpose of selling you products in a consumerist society, others to help you find your soul.
I quit calling myself atheist because I realized that was only limited to understanding the mythic-literal interpretation of God was incompatible with higher reason, as you find in modern and postmodern societies. I believe in Goodness. Visualize that however you wish. And that Goodness exists in us and the whole world, when we can see our way to realize it in actual practice. The "children of God" are those who follow the law of love, regardless of how they believe about deities. That includes all humans, in all religions, or in no religions at all.