Spirit of Light
Be who ever you want
For as long as i can remember i been disliking being critiqued for who i am, what i believe in, what i do what i say and so on. during the time today i reading RF comments on some of my own OP. and realized, Hey those guys are not mean, they have different opinion, different understanding of me, and what they do is expressing their views, expressing their opinion of what i write here. But even some comments was more personal toward me, it did not hurt as it used to do. I did not feel the "hate" i thought i felt before when reading critique.
If someone in the past said "you are not a true believer" that could be when i was a buddhist and it is now when i am a muslim, those kind of coments hurt the most. But today i realized, its their view of me, that does not mean it is true. So instead of being mad, i took the teaching in to my heart and embrace those words as teaching, not as a critique.
Critique only means a different approch to a topic, or a comment on something someone disagree with you on.
So if someone critique, it means you have more to learn, doen`t it?
If someone in the past said "you are not a true believer" that could be when i was a buddhist and it is now when i am a muslim, those kind of coments hurt the most. But today i realized, its their view of me, that does not mean it is true. So instead of being mad, i took the teaching in to my heart and embrace those words as teaching, not as a critique.
Critique only means a different approch to a topic, or a comment on something someone disagree with you on.
So if someone critique, it means you have more to learn, doen`t it?
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