DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
Something about the hormones does it. You know, sorta like how steroids make one bigger, except it's "natural."
Umm...Never heard of such a thing..But in any case if there is any truth to it what would the harm be?(and by "young age Im assuming you mean not a "child" but "young adult).
So if wrong circumstances can affect your mind negatively, why do they have one-night stands? Is the "wrong" set of circumstances different for different people?
Yes I would say so.We all have varying degrees of sensitivety to having sex under any given circumstances.I will say that for most..if its a 'relationship" not a one night stand having sex together intensifies the "bond" and so if there is a break up or infraction of trust the pain can be magnified because you had been sexually intimate.
It's not, I just never understood how the heck it's supposed to be fun. It's not like when you hug a girl, and that feeling lasts for days and you keep fantasizing over it for weeks... when it comes to sex (or masturbation, at least), the pleasure is over when the pleasure is over, and you can't really remember it much afterwards. It's sort of like an addictive drug - addictive, and too intense to be that pleasurable. And back then, I was taught that sex felt exactly the same as a nocturnal emission, so you can see why I didn't understand the concept.
As others have mentioned masturbation is in a different catergory.Its "fun" when you are with another person because you are at (hopefully) a deep level of trust and making each other feel really good and interacting on a base intimate level.Like the "hug' you said..In fact hugs do (from my understanding) release "feel good chemicals" in our brains leaving us with a feeling of well being that can linger..Same with sex but magnified.And it can be "addictive"..Because as humans..we want to feel good..things that make us "feel good" we gravitate to.
And back then, I was taught that sex felt exactly the same as a nocturnal emission, so you can see why I didn't understand the concept.
Nocturnal emmisions are usually as a result of needing release and you "dream" of sex and ..well you know..it comes out...Nothing even close to actually being awake and having sex with another human being.
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