No that was not my point. And no to the window blinds as well, lol.
The point is that while control dramas may very well be an insightful concept seeing them in every aspect and corner is the same as someone reading the dsm and diagnosing all their friends.
To assume that everyone has a specific control drama is just speculation. You have offered no supporting evidence for your claim. And the rhetorical tactic of insinuating that people do not want to admit it or are lying about it is in poor form.
All this does is amount to a projection. If you feel that a control drama is a large part of your interaction with others, that is okay. Hopefully, you can find better ways to communicate. But, your experience, although valid and important, is not a standard by which you can logically judge all others.
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This is one topic. I can't fix your car, your home, your country, and everything else that you're not happy about.
This topic is about people with control issues and self esteem issues. It's also for people who WANT to discuss these issues. It's not for people who want to dissuade others from discussing something that you don't feel comfortable about discussing. You don't have the power to control what we want to talk about. Why did you think you did?
To assume that everyone has a specific control drama is just speculation? You can believe what you want to believe. I'm sure you are the only person on the planet who is entirely kind, just, equal, fair, and reasonable, at least I'm sure you "think" you are that way.
Control drama's are not always a large part of our interactions with others. When you talk with someone in the super market they don't go into how messed up they are because one time their mom hit them when they were a kid and said a bad word.
My experience is not a standard by which I can logically judge all others? Do humans eat? If your answer is yes then how could you come to that assumption if you haven't met everyone?
You're very defensive. If you don't want to participate in the discussion, then don't, but why do you think you can get the rest of us to avoid talking about it just because you don't like the subject matter?
You are attempting to control what others discuss of their own free will. No wonder you are against the topic.