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Nice Guy Syndrome and Misandry

cablescavenger

cablescavenger

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CynthiaCypher said:
So you call yourself a "Nice Guy". You are nice to women, you treat them with respect and try to do your best to impress them with your kindness and general niceness. You believe that you are not like those other guys, you know those guys who aren't "nice", you go out of your way to be the exact opposite!

But yet, women continue to reject you? But how could that be? With you being such a "nice guy" and all who respects women they be glad to be friends or more with you. But that doesn't seem to be the case. So there must be something wrong with them and not you.

So whats wrong with these women? How can they be so disrespectful? Well, they must hate men. Yes! That's the ticket! The reason why women continue to reject is because these women hate men. It has nothing to do with the kind of guy you are, now does it?

Well, maybe it is you? Have you ever thought about it? Maybe there is something fundamentally wrong with you. Maybe instead, you are a misogynist. Yup that could be it! Maybe women reject you because you don't look at us as fellow human being but objects.
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If there is one thing I learned early on when dating, it was most definitely my fault :D
 
nnmartin

nnmartin

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Penumbra said:
So from what I see here, there is practically no way to acquire the experience for what all or most women want in a long term relationship.
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ok, so how many hot chicks do you see dating the skinny guy who sweeps the floor at the diner?
 
dawny0826

dawny0826

Mother Heathen
nnmartin said:
how about the standard accepted version then as we all know what that is...?
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There is no standard accepted version of a "hot" person.

If you stood before ten women and asked them to describe you, you'd hear ten variances in descriptions. Even if all unanimously said that you were hot - they'd have their individual justification for thinking so.
 
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Draka

Draka

Wonder Woman
Father Heathen said:
Your little scenario didn't provide enough information to determine what "kind of man" he is.
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Skinny and works at a diner isn't much to go on. Could be a complete jerkwad or the man of my dreams. With no personality description there is nothing to go on.
 
Quagmire

Quagmire

Imaginary talking monkey
Staff member
Premium Member
It's My Birthday!
"The difference between a nice guy and a sucker is that a nice guy stops being a nice guy once he realizes he's being played for a sucker".
From Shut up and listen Cuz I know Stuff by Naykidape.

A relationship is supposed to be a partnership. How many people want to partner up with someone who lets themselves be walked on? Not a great strategy for dealing with life: sort of like picking the guy with the hole in his racket as your tennis partner.
 
Songbird

Songbird

She rules her life like a bird in flight
After reading through aaaawwwlll the speculations and assertions on what women want, I want to SCREEEAAAM!!!

You know what? Everyone is different. There is no "what women want", despite what the annoyingly stereotyped and misogynistic Mel Gibson movie purports. As we can see from this thread, all of the men and women who posted have our own ideas and wants. The variety is simply amazing! Penumbra, Painted Wolf, Draka, Cynthia, and I all posted very different answers. We have different arousal triggers and different life experiences.

And Sunstone, Penguin, Viker, and Jungle all had very different answers as well.

Sometimes there is no accounting for categorization. Statistics which declare that women prefer ******** can be quite misleading. Or rather, people glean what they want to read from them, rather than understanding the larger context and basis of each study. I don't have time to discuss it tonight, but at some point I want to talk about how the thrill of the hunt can be mistaken for liking a jerk. It's not a male-only prowess. Chasing someone who seems unattainable is an equal-opportunity challenge many people enjoy.
 
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Debater Slayer

Debater Slayer

Vipassana
Staff member
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Quagmire said:
"The difference between a nice guy and a sucker is that a nice guy stops being a nice guy once he realizes he's being played for a sucker".
From Shut up and listen Cuz I know Stuff by Naykidape.

A relationship is supposed to be a partnership. How many people want to partner up with someone who lets themselves be walked on? Not a great strategy for dealing with life: sort of like picking the guy with the hole in his racket as your tennis partner.
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Dang, Naykid knows more about life than many people out there.
 
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