Nice Guy Syndrome and Misandry

[CynthiaCypher]

So you call yourself a "Nice Guy". You are nice to women, you treat them with respect and try to do your best to impress them with your kindness and general niceness. You believe that you are not like those other guys, you know those guys who aren't "nice", you go out of your way to be the exact opposite!

But yet, women continue to reject you? But how could that be? With you being such a "nice guy" and all who respects women they be glad to be friends or more with you. But that doesn't seem to be the case. So there must be something wrong with them and not you.

So whats wrong with these women? How can they be so disrespectful? Well, they must hate men. Yes! That's the ticket! The reason why women continue to reject is because these women hate men. It has nothing to do with the kind of guy you are, now does it?

Well, maybe it is you? Have you ever thought about it? Maybe there is something fundamentally wrong with you. Maybe instead, you are a misogynist. Yup that could be it! Maybe women reject you because you don't look at us as fellow human being but objects.

 

[Gjallarhorn]

...I'm not sure what to debate here. This seems more like something to put on Facebook.

That being said, I'd "like" it.

 

[Twilight Hue]

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[CynthiaCypher]

...I'm not sure what to debate here. This seems more like something to put on Facebook.

That being said, I'd "like" it.

You're not supposed to "like" it. You're a guy. You're supposed to argue that women who reject "nice guys" must be misandrists.

Now get to arguing with me.

 

[-Peacemaker-]

Women don't look at "nice guys" because the "nice guys" are typically gutless. Their schtick is just an expression of weakness because they're too afraid to ever take charge in their relationships with women. Unfortunately for such guys, most women want a man that can take charge

 

[Gjallarhorn]

Women don't look at "nice guys" because the "nice guys" are typically gutless. Their schtick is just an expression of weakness because they're too afraid to ever take charge in their relationships with women.

...assuming women want to be "taken charge" of.

 

[Sunstone]

If a guy was genuinely "nice", I don't think he would treat women as objects.

 

[-Peacemaker-]

...assuming women want to be "taken charge" of.

I'm not talking about being a bully. She just has to know that you have the capacity to take charge if necessary

 

[CynthiaCypher]

...assuming women want to be "taken charge" of.

To a certain extent he is right. Women like their men to masculine.

 

[Sunstone]

Women don't look at "nice guys" because the "nice guys" are typically gutless. Their schtick is just an expression of weakness because they're too afraid to ever take charge in their relationships with women. Unfortunately for such guys, most women want a man that can take charge

Meh. If a man feels he needs to prove himself to a woman -- or to anyone -- he's got some growing up to do.

 

[Gjallarhorn]

To a certain extent he is right. Women like their men to masculine.

Masculine defined as? Having a penis?

 

[Sunstone]

Women like their men to masculine.

Depends on the woman. Apparently, I've known a more diverse range of women than you have.

 

[Gjallarhorn]

I'm not talking about being a bully. She just has to know that you have the capacity to take charge if necessary

I would say the same requirement goes for women, wouldn't you?

 

[-Peacemaker-]

Depends on the woman. Apparently, I've known a more diverse range of women than you have.

Lesbians don't count in this discussion:biglaugh:

 

[Gjallarhorn]

Lesbians don't count in this discussion:biglaugh:

The fact that you assume a woman that likes to take charge is a lesbian is very telling.

 

[CynthiaCypher]

Meh. If a man feels he needs to prove himself to a woman -- or to anyone -- he's got some growing up to do.

I believe males showing off their masculinity is natural. And quite beautiful at times.


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[Sunstone]

The fact that you assume a woman that likes to take charge is a lesbian is very telling.

Naw, his women just wish they were lesbians.

 

[Gjallarhorn]

I believe males showing off their masculinity is natural. And quite beautiful at times.

White peacock in love ... - YouTube

Trying to turn an "is" into an "ought", ain't 'cha?

 

[Quintessence]

The fact that you assume a woman that likes to take charge is a lesbian is very telling.

No kidding.

And this is exactly why I often get accused of being a lesbian even though I am nothing of the sort. *sigh*

 

[Sunstone]

I believe males showing off their masculinity is natural. And quite beautiful at times.

It might be beautiful, but any woman -- or man -- who thinks I need to prove my masculinity to them can stick it up their butts.