What is incorrect with those humans who comment sarcastically?

[SomeRandom]

I agree with you! I think people are cowards who, when confronted with a seemingly tough situation or question, almost always use sarcasm as a mode of verbal volleying. However, in my entire life I have only met a couple of people who fit the description of "sarcastic person". When most people use sarcasm it is used as a form of humourous irony instead of a just blurting out a remark that could appear rude or off-putting. To be sarcastic in this case is the more kind way of getting a point across so as not to offend.

But as I stated, I have met only a couple of consummately sarcastic people and they were both cowards who were too afraid to be forthright.

Blurting out blunt opinions around others isn't cowardice it's a sign of a lack of emotional maturity or emotional intelligence. Either that or they're Australian lol. Culturally speaking Aussies tend to be rather forthright and blunt and practically breathe sarcasm.

 

[sovietchild]

Sarcasm is a way of avoiding confrontation because they are afraid of asking for what they want. When people are not good at reading those around them, or are not sure how to carry on a conversation they will often employ sarcasm hoping it sounds playful or affectionate.

 

[SomeRandom]

Sarcasm is a way of avoiding confrontation because they are afraid of asking for what they want. When people are not good at reading those around them, or are not sure how to carry on a conversation they will often employ sarcasm hoping it sounds playful or affectionate.

Those unable to detect sarcasm lack the necessary intellectual traits used to read body language, tone and inflection of speech. Inability to detect sarcasm OR lies could also correlate to an early warning sign of Dementia.

The actual question should be what is wrong with people who can't understand sarcasm. Because modern scientific research suggests that such a failure is linked to a number of woes.

 

[YmirGF]

Sarcasm is a way of avoiding confrontation because they are afraid of asking for what they want. When people are not good at reading those around them, or are not sure how to carry on a conversation they will often employ sarcasm hoping it sounds playful or affectionate.

My guess is that, in person, you are not a very skilled communicator. Again, you are wrong. I love a good confrontation and do not shrink from it when it arises. The fact is most people do not like confrontation so being able to weather the initial barrages gives one a leg up in dealing with confrontation. Likewise, I have am a very direct person. I do not beat around the bush - to the point - that some might find it a bit unnerving. I am positively great at reading so-called "body language" and rely on it when I have given public talks or taught classes. (I watched my audience/students to see how they reacted to various comments and to keep an eye out to see when I am going over their heads.)

Lastly, I am a naturally shy person, but one who realized early on that I have a unique personality and people, for the most part, like talking to me. It is for this reason that I don't have much problem starting conversations and am usually the one to open a dialogue. I learned this skill by working in a retail "department" store where I had to approach customers. Once I got over the worry of making a fool out of myself I found that I was good at it because I'm a good listener and read body language cues well.

Any other notions that I can dispel?

 

[lewisnotmiller]

Blurting out blunt opinions around others isn't cowardice it's a sign of a lack of emotional maturity or emotional intelligence. Either that or they're Australian lol. Culturally speaking Aussies tend to be rather forthright and blunt and practically breathe sarcasm.

Yeah...there is that.
Culturally, we value 'honesty' over 'tact', at least traditionally. It's only when Australians are regularly in contact with other cultures not called 'Americans' that we suddenly realise just how stark this difference can be. Subtlety is not an Australian trait.

As for sarcasm, yup, it's a common form of humour here. I roll with it a lot. That plus tangential nonsense.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

Sarcasm is a way of avoiding confrontation because they are afraid of asking for what they want. When people are not good at reading those around them, or are not sure how to carry on a conversation they will often employ sarcasm hoping it sounds playful or affectionate.

Hey, given that we've established that many Aussies lack tact, I feel I can be blunt...
You are COMPLETELY over-generalising in most of these threads. Tattoos, sarcasm, etc are not sure pointers to emotional issues any more than being a Muslim is a sure pointer to terrorism.

Based on the fact that I am at times sarcastic, and I am most certainly capable of both carrying a conversation and being quite direct, all I need is a tattoo somewhere and I can dispel a load of your over-generalisations at once. Just like there are plenty of posters here who can dispel the 'Muslims are terrorists' point of view.

 

[9-10ths_Penguin]

So, what you are trying to chat, the leading question is a cheating question? Like a hacker.

I think your title that you questions show disrespect for people who disagree with you. They suggest that you aren't interested in honest discussion.

Do you think sarcasm is cheating?

No. Of course not.

 

[Mary Blackchurch]

Blurting out blunt opinions around others isn't cowardice it's a sign of a lack of emotional maturity or emotional intelligence.

Yes, it is. But I think sarcastic people are immature and lack intelligence. I cannot add Aussies into that batch, though, mate. I think Aussies are the most practical people - and the most in touch with what's natural, generally speaking.

 

[sovietchild]

"Eliminating sarcasm may just be one of the most rewarding personal development steps you’ll ever take because it forces you to better express who you really are and what is important to you."

 

[Ouroboros]

Is that so?

Was that an attempt of a sarcastic response from you? We're turning you to the dark side!

 

[YmirGF]

"Eliminating sarcasm may just be one of the most rewarding personal development steps you’ll ever take because it forces you to better express who you really are and what is important to you."

So, who is the genius behind this quote?

 

[sovietchild]

So, who is the genius behind this quote?

http://www.littlethingsmatter.com/blog/2010/06/30/the-damaging-effects-of-sarcasm/

 

[sovietchild]

who is the genius behind this quote?

Is that so?

 

[YmirGF]

http://www.littlethingsmatter.com/blog/2010/06/30/the-damaging-effects-of-sarcasm/

Yeah, I found it before you posted it. Not terribly impressive thinking. It's purely an opinion piece and has no evidence to backup his claim.

 

[Ouroboros]

Benefits of sarcasm (Source: Scientific America, it boosts creativity): The Surprising Benefits of Sarcasm

10 benefits of sarcasm (Source: Huffington Post): 10 Ways Sarcasm Makes You A Better Person | The Huffington Post

I especially like this one: "Sarcastic people think on another level."

 

[SomeRandom]

Yes, it is. But I think sarcastic people are immature and lack intelligence. I cannot add Aussies into that batch, though, mate. I think Aussies are the most practical people - and the most in touch with what's natural, generally speaking.

Well yeah us Aussies are in touch with what's natural. I mean you has to be awares of nature round these parts otherwise it'll kill ya!
Well actually sarcasm usage does indicate a healthy brain according to modern research. It also takes a certain amount of intelligence to be able to properly identify and use sarcasm. Also the ability to use sarcasm may indicate a more creative person. So modern neuroscience and linguistics experts are a little bit at odds with your assessment I'm afraid.
Unless that assessment was sarcastic, ya cheeky larrikin!

But seriously though how about for example Oscar Wilde? The man had a very high level of education and aced it in his sleep. He is the master of sarcasm. The sarcasm he used to dissect the Aesthetic/Decadent movement in Picture of Dorian Gray is hardly unintelligent. Next to Lolita I've never thought so furiously in my life trying to discern his jabs.

 

[sovietchild]

Hey, given that we've established that many Aussies lack tact, I feel I can be blunt...
You are COMPLETELY over-generalising in most of these threads. Tattoos, sarcasm, etc are not sure pointers to emotional issues any more than being a Muslim is a sure pointer to terrorism.

Based on the fact that I am at times sarcastic, and I am most certainly capable of both carrying a conversation and being quite direct, all I need is a tattoo somewhere and I can dispel a load of your over-generalisations at once. Just like there are plenty of posters here who can dispel the 'Muslims are terrorists' point of view.

Well, Australia is kinda upside down if you think about it.

• Summer: December to February
• Autumn: March to May
• Winter: June to August
• Spring: September to November

 

[YmirGF]

Well, Australia is kinda upside down if you think about it.

• Summer: December to February
• Autumn: March to May
• Winter: June to August
• Spring: September to November

Then again, we're the ones who are upside down to them. Jus' sayin'....

 

[SomeRandom]

Well, Australia is kinda upside down if you think about it.

• Summer: December to February
• Autumn: March to May
• Winter: June to August
• Spring: September to November

Lol more like
Summer January to January
With a few months of under 20 degree (Celsius) weather somewhere in between.
Course it depends on where you live.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

Lol more like
Summer January to January
With a few months of under 20 degree (Celsius) weather somewhere in between.
Course it depends on where you live.

I live in Melbourne, so it's actually more like this;

Monday - hot
Tuesday - cold
Wednesday - windy
Thursday - warm and sunny
Friday morning - hail
Friday afternoon - extreme heatwave
Friday night - out drinking so who cares