I believe, you can tell others the same thing brother. Do you understand? Tell people not to make assumptions about rape, why people rape, how to do this that and the other. Because in my opinion rape is one of the biggest sins and one of the most dangerous, damaging and monstrous crimes to do. Generally men and even some women tend to make a lot of nonsensical assumptions about rape and predominantly most of them blame the women.
Not you. You are a true human being and sensitive. So when I say these thing I am not talking about you, I am telling you to tell others this because its truly worth it.
Please read Groths typology when you have some time. I am pretty sure you will be able to understand it, and other people will listen to you.
Peace.