Gender/sex dysphoria is not a "self-esteem" issue, although it can cause self-esteem issues. It's severe distress caused by the body and the mind not being on the same page. There's the concept of the brain map. Basically, the brain "expects" the body to have a certain layout but the body doesn't follow suit. It ties into phantom limb syndrome that many amputees experience. In fact, many trans men have experienced something that's much the same, called phantom penis syndrome. This makes sense since the brain is sexually dimorphic and evidence points to the brains of transsexuals being more akin to the brains of the sex the individual identifies with. (So a male-to-female individual would have a brain that's alike a female's brain, and vice versa.)This is a straw-man argument. Not separating conjoined twins can lead to complication later on in life. Heart murmurs are a life-threatening condition. Being in the "wrong body" is not a threat.
Again, this is a straw-man. You had the surgery for a physical condition that could help you walk. I was talking about having surgery for esteem issues. I just realized now that bringing up my CP was completely irrelevant to my argument. All I was trying to say was that I don't feel suicidal for being disabled, therefore there is no reason why a transsexual should feel suicidal just for perceiving they have the wrong gender. That's very silly.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_dysphoria
This causes severe anguish, depression, self-hatred and anxiety. And that's not even including how trans people are treated in society. Trans people suffer very high rates of harassment, bullying, assault, murder, discrimination, homelessness, unemployment, poverty, lack of access to healthcare, etc.
You sound angry and bitter over your health issue. I'm sorry you feel that way. But you don't speak for all people with disabilities. There's many people with dwarfism who accept it as part of who they are and as natural. Peter Dinklage, for example, doesn't seem angry and bitter over having dwarfism.Do you think my CP is natural? I don't think so. My cerebral damage is not genetic, it happened when my oxygen supply was cut off in the womb when my mother's uterus tore. Don't you dare say that my disability is natural. I'm quite sure any dwarf would take your statement to be offensive.