To many this is probably stupid, "who cares what family thinks" right? I'd certainly never leave a girl just because of my family, but I'm not sure how to broach the topic. There's the who single child single parent angle for one thing, so everything is tight nit, never had an issue with my mom in my adult life until this. But now it she's constantly telling me how my girlfriend isn't the one (even my counselor was like WTF?), talking negatively about her everytime she gets a chance. And my family has made it pretty clear they aren't big fans.
So I don't know what to do. I'm more nervous my family who everyone loves than asking her father permission and such. But it's not like I can somehow leave my family out, we're a freaking Jewish family for crying out loud haha. But it's been 3.5 years, we finally have jobs that can pay rent, and I can't imagine loving someone more. The time is definitely quickly approaching.
So I don't know what to do. I'm more nervous my family who everyone loves than asking her father permission and such. But it's not like I can somehow leave my family out, we're a freaking Jewish family for crying out loud haha. But it's been 3.5 years, we finally have jobs that can pay rent, and I can't imagine loving someone more. The time is definitely quickly approaching.