cardero
Citizen Mod
I once worked with a man who was married and he and his wife would participate in the swingers lifestyle. He thoroughly explained to me how he and his wife would review couples online, contact them through e-mail and then make preparations to meet the other couple for dinner or drinks at a public place.
If the first initial meeting went well, they would set up a rendezvous at the couples house or a hotel to commit the swinging act. He went on to explain the dos and donts about this lifestyle. Practical solutions like, how no meant no and the fact that they always practiced safe sex with the couples. The only thing that he admitted was difficult was finding the time to team up with the couples because of their parental priorities to their two daughters. Overall, I was very impressed with the mature and responsible way that the couple handled themselves with this sexual lifestyle.
For those that do not understand the swinging lifestyle, it is basically an agreement to sexually swap partners. It could be two or more married couples and it could be a married couple and a unmarried couple but it is usually a consented swap.
Does anyone find swinging degrading or disagreeable?
Is swinging on the rise or is it something that is no longer fashionable?
Do you know of anyone who has had positive experiences with swinging or has testimony that shows that it has improved their marriage sexually or emotionally?
If the right couple came along could anyone find this sexual lifestyle preferable?