Jim
Nets of Wonder
NOTE: I’m posting this in the Seekers Circle forum because it has special rules that I’m hoping for people to follow.
I’m not searching for a religion or a community, but this felt to me like the place where I might get the best help.
For more than 15 years, I’ve been struggling with trying to free myself from hostile feelings towards a few members of my community who have been promoting and defending their beliefs in forums where I’ve been posting. When I’ve had hostile feelings towards other people, I’ve always been able to free myself from those, but not with those members of my community.
A few times with other people, the only way I’ve found to free myself from hostile feelings was by never trying to discuss anything with them. I’ve never been satisfied with that as a solution to my problem with members of my community, but now I’m considering it.
I’m not looking for anyone to solve my problem for me. Just thinking that I might get some better ideas from discussing it with some other people.
I’m not searching for a religion or a community, but this felt to me like the place where I might get the best help.
For more than 15 years, I’ve been struggling with trying to free myself from hostile feelings towards a few members of my community who have been promoting and defending their beliefs in forums where I’ve been posting. When I’ve had hostile feelings towards other people, I’ve always been able to free myself from those, but not with those members of my community.
A few times with other people, the only way I’ve found to free myself from hostile feelings was by never trying to discuss anything with them. I’ve never been satisfied with that as a solution to my problem with members of my community, but now I’m considering it.
I’m not looking for anyone to solve my problem for me. Just thinking that I might get some better ideas from discussing it with some other people.
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