STRAIGHT WOMEN: Would you date and/or have sex with a female to male transsexual?

[Saint Frankenstein]

A female to male transsexual is a person who was born with an XX chromosomal body but is medically transitioning to male or has transitioned to male.

I would like to keep the poll just for women who identify as straight but everyone is welcome to comment.

 

[Deidre]

I'm 'straight,' and yea, I imagine I could/would if the opportunity presented itself...it's a person's heart that matters most.

 

[Thana]

Honestly? No, I wouldn't.

 

[Madhuri]

If I found the person sexually attractive then why not. It would have to be a pretty convincing transition though since I'm really not attracted to women.

 

[Aset's Flames]

I am straight but I do not care for sex so the answer is no.

 

[Draka]

Sure. As long as the transition has been made I think. I am not attracted to the idea of sexual relations with female...parts. But if the person is now fully male, sure.

 

[George-ananda]

but everyone is welcome to comment.

May I ask a question? Can I assume no penis (but a vagina) and no procreation possibilities? I assume the answers are 'no' and 'no' but I just want confirmation being a little ignorant on the subject. Is XX the normal female condition?

(I am a straight male so the question itself doesn't apply to me but my curiosity exists anyway)

 

[George-ananda]

A female to male transsexual is a person who was born with an XX chromosomal body but is medically transitioning to male or has transitioned to male.

What determines that there was a transition to male?

 

[Terese]

Probably not.

 

[Sunstone]

I might date a male to female transexual if my desire for her could overcome the happiness I've found as a celibate. But for that to happen, there would need to be a profound, dramatic, and lasting shift in my sentiments away from celibacy, such as could only be brought about were she to, say, flash some thigh at me.

 

[Sirona]

Dunno. I've met some transsexuals. Always found the male-to-females prettier. But as I also find muscular female bodybuilders attractive. Maybe I could have sex with a female-to-male transsexual if he was very muscular.

Can female-to-male transsexuals actually have erections?

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

May I ask a question? Can I assume no penis (but a vagina) and no procreation possibilities? I assume the answers are 'no' and 'no' but I just want confirmation being a little ignorant on the subject. Is XX the normal female condition?

(I am a straight male so the question itself doesn't apply to me but my curiosity exists anyway)

A female to male transsexual is a person who was born with female sex characteristics but perceives themselves as male and so transitions to live as male and to have many male sex characteristics as is possible.

So a transsexual man would be born with female genitalia. However, there are genitals surgeries to create a penis. But those surgical options currently are not very advanced and don't tend to produce realistic results. They're also very expensive, drawn-out and involve a lot of pain and scarring (especially the phalloplasty). So most of us don't get genital surgery. However, there are very realistic prosthetics that exist that are pretty much indistinguishable from natural male anatomy. (I'm not talking about dildos, either.) You can pee like a male and have sex like a male using those. You can also ejaculate with them, using synthetic fluid that imitates real semen.

Most of us are effectively sterile. We wouldn't want to be pregnant and birth and we also can't impregnate a woman. (Testosterone therapy sterilizes you, plus many of us have hysterectomies and such.)

What determines that there was a transition to male?

Medical transition involving testosterone therapy and surgery. There's also legal transition, which includes changing your legal name and sex marker on your documents and such.

Dunno. I've met some transsexuals. Always found the male-to-females prettier. But as I also find muscular female bodybuilders attractive. Maybe I could have sex with a female-to-male transsexual if he was very muscular.

Testosterone therapy causes the trans man to develop a male musculature.

Can female-to-male transsexuals actually have erections?

Yes. The clitoris is basically the same as a penis and gets its own erections. Testosterone therapy causes the clitoris to grow a bit, but not enough for penetrative sex. However, we can use prosthetics for that.

 

[George-ananda]

There's also legal transition, which includes changing your legal name and sex marker on your documents and such.

Now can just anybody do this? Or are there some legally defined medical tests you have to pass?


Thanks for the physical information you provided. I learned some things and confirmed some things.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Now can just anybody do this? Or are there some legally defined medical tests you have to pass?

Different places have different requirements (a few places don't let you change it at all, unfortunately) and you require a doctor to fill out paperwork and confirm it.

 

[Demonslayer]

Is this Religious Forums or Match.com? Frankie's looking for a date!

Testosterone therapy causes the clitoris to grow a bit, but not enough for penetrative sex.

Shoot, half us Irish guys have the same problem.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Is this Religious Forums or Match.com? Frankie's looking for a date!



Shoot, half us Irish guys have the same problem.

Please stop making jokes about it, because it's really not a funny subject.

 

[SkepticThinker]

I'm 'straight,' and yea, I imagine I could/would if the opportunity presented itself...it's a person's heart that matters most.

I have to be honest and say I'm not really sure. But I like this answer ^^^

 

[Horrorble]

Yes, but I'm not completely straight. I'm curious about women but I'm not sure if it's enough to consider myself bisexual.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Yes, but I'm not completely straight. I'm curious about women but I'm not sure if it's enough to consider myself bisexual.

That's fair.

 

[Senseless]

Don't fit the poll criteria, but were my circumstances different and if I liked the person, definitely. But I guess that's my primary criterion anyway, personality before gender and sex.