Do you have children? Are you in the position right now where you're responsible for the behavior, health and overall well being of little ones?
I mean you no disrespect at all, in fact, I'm probably long overdue in communicating to you that even though we have very different political views, I have a great respect for your intelligence and have always appreciated your posts.
So, without trying to "sound" rude...I ask...who are you to tell me how to raise my children? If you were to support legislation making spanking illegal, you're infringing upon my rights as a parent.
In truth, caring for someone else's child for a short period of time is completly different than having your own children that you're fully responsible for. I would never correct another's child in the same manner that I would my own. But I guess this is neither here nor there.
I think it's unfair to make assumptions about the motives behind why parents choose to spank their children.
I don't enjoy spanking my daughters at all and fortunately, rarely have to do so but if a spank on the rear is what it takes to ensure that my daughter doesn't repeat a behavior that is negative and positively harmful to herself..I feel I've done what's in her best interest and would be failing her if I turned the other cheek and coddled her.
Let me give you an example. We keep the electrical outlets covered with plastic plugs. But there are several sockets in the house that are used regularly, you know they're used for fans, lamps, appliances, etc. My children know they are not to get near an electrical outlet nor are they to touch one.
Ruthie, my three year old, while I'm dressing her older sister...decides she's going to try to plug in a fan...I immediately popped her butt, after giving firm warnings. She heard my firm "NO" and kept right on moving towards the fan...after a second firm "NO"...with me standing right beside her...she still proceeded to try to plug the fan in.
I would rather her deal with a moment of shock and embarassment from a pop on the rear to get her attention. sp she knows Mommy means business and the outlet is off limits, than for her to receive an actual electrical shock.
NEVER have I raised my voice to my children or spanked them have I not explained to them AFTER the fact, WHY Mommy spanked them or raised her voice. And we always tell our girls that we love them afterwards and explain why their behavior warranted a spanking or a scolding.
Though my initial attempts when correcting my children are always to use a positive reinforcer or use a negative reinforcer (time out, taking a toy away, etc.)...the truth is...it isn't always practical to reason with a six and three year old. There are times, even though I prefer non-physical forms of discipline...a spanking is necessary.
I hate it but I LOVE them and want for them to be the best that they can be in life. There's a balance.
Does this make any sense at all?