If you love pumpkin pie, but DO NOT like chiffon pumpkin pie, you like regular pumpkin pie, But you were forced to have chiffon pumpkin pie or no pie, while at a relatives for Thanksgiving. Which is most ethical to do; to eat the pie, smile and say thank you. Not eat the pie and complain since they would not let you bring regular pumpkin pie. Or Is there a more ethical approach altogether?