How do you dispel myths about Scientology if you have not experienced being a Scientologist?
Here is a good resource to find out about Scientology, by people who have actually experienced it....
Ex Scientologist Message Board
The facts are out there for anyone who's willing to do research into the other side of the debate, as I've done, and I know people who are actual Scientologists. And as I said before, the testimony of apostates about New Religious Movements is not reliable.
Yeah, it is absolutely terrible. Breaks up families, basically steals money and leaves people bankrupt, spreads destructive lies to children, and tries to ruin the lives of those who want to leave the church. Say what you will about the Catholic Church, but Scientology takes it to another level.
No one in Scientology is forced to disconnect from their family members. It simply gives them the right to do so. As L. Ron Hubbard said:
Perhaps the most fundamental right of any being is the right to communicate. Without this freedom, other rights deteriorate. Communication, however, is a two-way flow. If one has the right to communication, the one must also have the right to not receive communication from another ... The term 'disconnection' is defined as a self-determined decision made by an individual that he is not going to be connected to another. ... With our tech of handle or disconnect, we are, in actual fact, doing nothing different that any society or group or marriage down through thousands of years. ... We cannot afford to deny Scientologists that basic freedom that is granted to everyone else: the right to choose whom one wishes to communicate with or not communicate with.
The practice of disconnection is present in many religions. For instance, I was a member of the Baha'i Faith for a time, and they have a law of shunning "
Covenant Breakers." You should read this:
A COMPARATIVE SUMMARY OF DISCONNECTION OR SHUNNING IN WORLD RELIGIONS.
It doesn't cost any money to just be a Scientologist. If you want books, lectures, and training courses, you're of course going to have to spend some money, as it is with any other religion, but this money goes to a good cause. The IRS recognizes the fact that the Church of Scientology is a non-profit, and they do
extensive humanitarian work.
The "spreads destructive lies to children" can be used against basically against any religion. Just because someone is teaching children something you happen to disagree with does not mean it's destructive or a lie.
Anyone can leave Scientology if they want to. When people do leave Scientology, as it is with most NRM's, it generally goes unnoticed, because the great majority of people view their past experience as a positive one and don't try to make a big scene out of it for money and attention. "Contrary to public opinion, the overwhelming majority of defections from new religious movements are a matter of voluntary apostasy" (The Reliability of Apostate Testimony About New Religious Movements).
LDS and Roman Catholicism enforces tithing, Islam has obligatory "zakat," and Baha'is have to pay 19% of their income to the highest governing body of their religion.
Actually, anyone currently in the church will be biased and unreliable. "Apostates" as you call them (which certainly makes it seem like you are being dishonest about not being associated with the "church")
Well what word would you prefer that I use? I am not sure how I can prove to you that I am not affiliated with the church. You seem to think that only a Scientologist can defend Scientology, which is a completely ridiculous idea. The story behind this post is that recently I spoke with a Scientologist who offered some arguments against the criticisms against their faith, and so I did some more research and looked into pro-Scientology websites and the arguments they present and the sources they give, and it has been pretty convincing for me. I am now considering Scientology and am looking to see what the anti-Scientology side thinks.
provide the best view into the harmful aspects of scientology.
The fact is they don't. Ex-members do not give us a reliable source of information regarding the character of any New Religious Movement, Scientology or otherwise.
And I am certainly NOT taking the word of a member of the religion with merely a BS degree saying otherwise.
Kliever had a PhD in Religion and Philosophy, and I have found no evidence that he was a Scientologist. He was simply asked by the CoS to conduct the study, which is understandable, as he was in his time a leading expert on all sorts of New Religious Movements. He was often sought for consultation by many regarding NRM's.