Aqualung
Tasty
I don't know if this has already been a thread or not, but is it okay to hit your children?
I say yes. Hitting is little different than sending a kid to time out. The intent is to make them know that they did something, and the end result (guilt) is the same. I don't think it does more damage to a kid if that guilt is come by hitting or by time out.
This is only true in a loving home. A mom or dad who actually didn't care about their kids, would not be able to excersise proper judgement when it came to hitting. They could seriously hurt the child if they didn't care. But if they did care, they would be able to judge what sort of hitting the child could stand, and be able to tie the hit into a lesson about what the child did wrong. Of couse, these scenarios are also true in the case of timeout. A parent could seriously misuse timeouts, if they really didn't care about raising their kids. So, really, I don't think it makes a difference whether you hit your kids or not, just whether or not you do it lovingly.
I say yes. Hitting is little different than sending a kid to time out. The intent is to make them know that they did something, and the end result (guilt) is the same. I don't think it does more damage to a kid if that guilt is come by hitting or by time out.
This is only true in a loving home. A mom or dad who actually didn't care about their kids, would not be able to excersise proper judgement when it came to hitting. They could seriously hurt the child if they didn't care. But if they did care, they would be able to judge what sort of hitting the child could stand, and be able to tie the hit into a lesson about what the child did wrong. Of couse, these scenarios are also true in the case of timeout. A parent could seriously misuse timeouts, if they really didn't care about raising their kids. So, really, I don't think it makes a difference whether you hit your kids or not, just whether or not you do it lovingly.