If you are a believer, you still probably do not understand things as I do. There is the general Holy Spirit of God which has always been operating by his will. This seems to be God's means of getting his will carried out in the spirit realm and in the physical realm:
Gen 1: 2 And the earth was waste and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep: and the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters.This general God's spirit can be understood to be an integral part of him, just like our hands and feet and eyes, etc. are part of our bodies. In that sense, if this is correct, it does not have a gender separate from God.
1 Samuel 10:10 . . .at once the spirit of God became operative upon him, and he began to speak as a prophet in the middle of them.
Job 33:4 . . .God’s own spirit made me, And the Almighty’s own breath proceeded to bring me to life. . .
Christ holy spirit
Jesus told his followers that if he didn't die, that his spirit could not be sent to them, that which is known as the Helper, the Advocate, the Teacher, the Comforter, and perhaps more names I forget momentarily.
John 7:39 However, he said this concerning the spirit which those who put faith in him were about to receive; for as yet there was no spirit, because Jesus had not yet been glorified. . .We were told that this Helper, Advocate, Teacher, Comforter - is personified, called he. We are told that this Christ's spirit is sent by God in the name of Christ; thus, it is Christ's by being bequeathed to Christ by God, by God sending it out in Christ's name.
John 16:7, "Nevertheless I tell you the truth: It is expedient for you that I go away; for if I go not away, the (1) Comforter will not come unto you; but if I go, I will send him unto you.(1) Or Advocate ; Or Helper ; Gr Paraclete ) (ASV)
John 14:25-26, `These things I have spoken to you, remaining with you, 26and the Comforter, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things, and remind you of all things that I said to you. (YLT)Since this Advocate, Teacher is personified as 'he' - that is what I understand. It is Christ's spirit sent out to his disciples to teach them, to help them.
Rom 8: 9 . . .But if any man hath not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.As you can see, the subject is more complex than a first look makes one believe.
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I find the subject more complex because of English grammar rules and clergy teachings.
In Greek grammar rules masculine gender is used for neuter words such as 'it' and 'itself' spoken as he or him.
God's spirit (Psalms 104:30) is neuter as the word " it " found at Numbers 11:17; Numbers 11:25.
Older King James versions also used the neuter word " itself " found at Romans 8:16 and Romans 8:26.
So, just as we might refer to a ship as a 'she ' the ship still remains a neuter ' it '.
God did Not pour out a person according to Proverbs 1:23 but His spirit upon those of Acts of the Apostles 2:17-18