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I am in a long distance relationship with a woman, she was just attacked by her landlord. He tried to rape her, she managed to get away. She is staying at a friend's place, she has talked to just me and the friend she is living with.
But she refuses to take action about this POS bag of expletives that literally lives next door to her. She won't tell her family, I even threatened to break up with her unless she tells someone anyone, the police. I don't care. The landlords wife? I mean jibber effing crabst what the hell can I do if I am stuck 6000 miles away. She has a kid whom she has gone great lengths to defend from harm but she won't lift barely a finger in defense of herself. I DON"T UNDERSTAND.
If I were there I would probably have pout the guy in a wheelchair or a breathing tube for the rest of his natural life. But she won't do anything, I'm at a complete loss here. i have talked to her for hours trying to convince her to tell her family, maybe they can help. She says the landlord also works for the local government and that her friends also say nothing will happen if she tells anyone so what is the point.
I mean this **** has to end! and all these dirt bags need to die in my opinion, PUBLICLY. I don't know what to do. She just let's people run over her but is a rock against the fury of the storm for her child. Mirror opposites in behavior I don't want to do. So I am asking for your advice, the only solutions I can think of end in bloodshed, I am too close to this to think rationally.
Help Please.
EDIT I wasn't going to break up with her and yes I know it was stupid and callous. I just didn't know how else to get her to think she needs to take some kind of action to her predicament. I don't do that sort of psychological warfare in the first place, well I guess that's a a lie cause I did this morning. But I wouldn't ever do it under normal circumstances. i really feel bad about that.
I was desperate and I knew it was wrong. I just I dunno, did out of desperation.
But she refuses to take action about this POS bag of expletives that literally lives next door to her. She won't tell her family, I even threatened to break up with her unless she tells someone anyone, the police. I don't care. The landlords wife? I mean jibber effing crabst what the hell can I do if I am stuck 6000 miles away. She has a kid whom she has gone great lengths to defend from harm but she won't lift barely a finger in defense of herself. I DON"T UNDERSTAND.
If I were there I would probably have pout the guy in a wheelchair or a breathing tube for the rest of his natural life. But she won't do anything, I'm at a complete loss here. i have talked to her for hours trying to convince her to tell her family, maybe they can help. She says the landlord also works for the local government and that her friends also say nothing will happen if she tells anyone so what is the point.
I mean this **** has to end! and all these dirt bags need to die in my opinion, PUBLICLY. I don't know what to do. She just let's people run over her but is a rock against the fury of the storm for her child. Mirror opposites in behavior I don't want to do. So I am asking for your advice, the only solutions I can think of end in bloodshed, I am too close to this to think rationally.
Help Please.
EDIT I wasn't going to break up with her and yes I know it was stupid and callous. I just didn't know how else to get her to think she needs to take some kind of action to her predicament. I don't do that sort of psychological warfare in the first place, well I guess that's a a lie cause I did this morning. But I wouldn't ever do it under normal circumstances. i really feel bad about that.
I was desperate and I knew it was wrong. I just I dunno, did out of desperation.
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