My only exception to what you say is that I find no place in the Bible where we are to judge each other. As to the BOM, I don't know. Judgement of one another is usurping the power of God. I mean that as harshly as I can.
The Jewish sacred texts simply teach to judge others FAIRLY, even to judge with love -- the two are not a contradiction:
...do not favor the poor or show deference to the rich; judge your neighbor fairly...You shall not hate your kinsman in your heart. Reprove your neighbor, but incur no guilt against your kinsfolk. Love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD. [19:16-17]
I think people get confused because Jesus, who railed against HYPOCRISY said, Judge not lest ye also be judged. But those pulling this verse out of its context always seem to be those doing wrong who want to be left alone so that they can sin in peace LOL
First let's look at the entire passage.
1. “Do not judge, so that you may not be judged. 2 For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. 3 Why do you see the speck in your neighbor’s eye, but do not notice the log in your own eye? Matthew 7:1-3
The very first thing you notice is that the passage isn't about judgment, it's about HYPOCRISY. So verse 1 must be read in this context, or it is misread, misquoted. Basically, if I'm embezzling from the office, I have no right to look down on my kid for getting caught stealing Twizzlers from the store. But if I'm not stealing anything, I have every right, even an obligation, to tell an embezzler or a kid with sticky hands that what they are doing is wrong.
And just in case you might have any doubts about this interpretation, let me throw in what Jesus is reputed to have said in Mathew 7:24. "Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly." So Jesus actually commands his followers to judge. But he also teaches them how to do it the right way. It sounds in this particular verse like Jesus is inspiring Martin Luther King Jr when King talked of judgment not by the color of our skin, but the content of our character. Aw come on, everyone loves MLK.
This whole recent idea that somehow Jesus said not to judge anyone is a terrible idea that enables evil. Do you really think that people should stand by and say nothing when others rob, rape, murder, molest? Or even lesser things... Should people say nothing while a bully verbally tears apart someone who has gender identity issues for example? Would you not pipe up if your spouse was loosing their cool and angrily shoving the bottle into your sick and crying babies mouth? How far will you let the excuse go? Can you see the Pittsburgh spree shooter standing up in court and saying, "Don't judge me!"
It is usually people with soft, loving hearts who get taken in by this new sneak attack on society. They so don't want to hurt people's feelings. But you take any virtue and develop it at the expense of other virtues and it soon becomes a vice.
I think it's easier for me to avoid this pitfall because of my exposure to Jewish teaching. Dennis Prager was especially helpful to me on this topic back in the 90s.