For certain kinds of topics, arguing over facts doesn't result in a productive debate or discussion. This tends to happen when the topic relates to personal ideologies that tread into being matters of opinion rather than matters of fact. In the English language, we'll typically use "believe that" or "feel that" language when talking about ourselves or our opinions. Statements like this are understood to reflect the speaker, not the world (that is, they are not to be taken as facts). As a result, simply presenting facts may not result in a productive discussion or disagreement.
Sometimes, just expressing your own opinion without being pushy is all you need to do.
Feel free to give the entire article a gander - I found it interesting as it resonated with some of my own experiences. There have definitely been questions asked around RF that have felt like "evidence proves blue is the best color" like the various "prove your religion" threads I've seen from time to time. What are your thoughts on this, though?
If you're someone who tends to use facts when trying to persuade others on the subject of religion, why do you think that is? Do you feel you've had success with it? What obstacles have you faced?
When others have tried to persuade you using facts, how do you usually react? Do you feel like that person has communicated effectively with you? In what cases do facts appeal to you, and in what cases do they feel irrelevant?
These prompts are only starting points for reflection... feel free to take it in other directions.
"[Factual] information alone is often insufficient to resolve disagreements. It’s addressing the part of ideological beliefs that is like a fact, the part where someone is trying to communicate information about the world. But it’s missing the part where ideological beliefs are also like an opinion. Without this part, saying, “Actually, evidence shows that X” sounds a lot like saying, “Actually, evidence proves that blue is not the prettiest color.” To be convincing, you need tools that address both the fact part and the opinion part of an ideology.
People rarely change their opinions because someone out-argued them. Rather, opinion-based change can come from exposure. People like the familiar, even when that familiarity comes from the briefest of prior exposures. The same could occur for viewpoints that they’ve heard before.
What does exposure look like when talking about ideological disagreements? “Hmm. I actually think something different.” “I really appreciated the way my science tutor was patient with me when I didn’t understand evolution. The way she explained things made a lot of sense to me after a while.”"
From - How to have productive disagreements about politics and religion
People rarely change their opinions because someone out-argued them. Rather, opinion-based change can come from exposure. People like the familiar, even when that familiarity comes from the briefest of prior exposures. The same could occur for viewpoints that they’ve heard before.
What does exposure look like when talking about ideological disagreements? “Hmm. I actually think something different.” “I really appreciated the way my science tutor was patient with me when I didn’t understand evolution. The way she explained things made a lot of sense to me after a while.”"
From - How to have productive disagreements about politics and religion
Sometimes, just expressing your own opinion without being pushy is all you need to do.
Feel free to give the entire article a gander - I found it interesting as it resonated with some of my own experiences. There have definitely been questions asked around RF that have felt like "evidence proves blue is the best color" like the various "prove your religion" threads I've seen from time to time. What are your thoughts on this, though?
If you're someone who tends to use facts when trying to persuade others on the subject of religion, why do you think that is? Do you feel you've had success with it? What obstacles have you faced?
When others have tried to persuade you using facts, how do you usually react? Do you feel like that person has communicated effectively with you? In what cases do facts appeal to you, and in what cases do they feel irrelevant?
These prompts are only starting points for reflection... feel free to take it in other directions.