I don't think that he nor I are actually doing that as we're not in any way denying the atrocities that were committed, whether they be leaders or followers. But what we have seen over and over again are many (not you) that basically stereotype the church, pointing out everything negative but not showing anything positive. And yet if we were to do that to their religious or secular institutions, all hell breaks loose.
As long as institutions are made up of humans, there's going to be some bad but there also is to be some good. I don't believe in the RCC's most basic theology (the exception is their social teachings), including how we Jews were condemned by the church to hell unless we converted, so I should have quite an ax to grind-- but I don't.
I don't want to relive the past, and the church has made remarkable changes to correct its many problems over recent decades. They ain't perfect, but then neither am I (a shocker, eh!
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