Yeah, it's a odd one to mull over (and not pleasant). It's not at all easy or comfortable to compare lusting after kids to how we feel about the people we're attracted to. I'm sure what you're mainly into with women is women who are also into you, and that if your feelings are not reciprocated you somehow manage to avoid raping them. As do I, with men I'm attracted to that don't or can't reciprocate. Why would pedophiles be any different?
I'm not convinced they are different. They're probably not.
I'm not sure we understand enough about the causes of pedophilia to be sure though. Anywhoos, I think your assumption is logical. Just something I was mulling over.
They might get it out of their system with fantasy, wanking, or consensual role playing with other adults. We don't all get exactly what we want, sexually speaking. My husband looks nothing like Johnny Depp, but somehow we manage to muddle along.
Johnny Depp, huh? *chuckles*
Yep, understand your point.
I'm no expert in sexual matters. I blush far too easily. But I'm going to ramble on here anyway, in the hope you'll offer your opinion. Again, I'm really just thinking aloud. I'm playing fast and loose with the truth here, in the hope that you (or whomever else is reading along) can help me develop my point of view on this a little. It might come across as abstract, I dunno...I'm bad at judging that.
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Majority of heterosexual males will, at some point in their life, have sex with a woman. It's loose, in terms of being a fact, but just run with it for a sec. It's also seen as 'normal' by the vast majority of society, including those who also see bisexual or homosexual behaviours as normal, right through to religious zealots.
Homosexual males will probably have sex with a male at some point, but my total unsubstantiated guess is that this will occur at a lower rate. Fear, shame, repression, etc, all play a role here, I would suspect.
The revulsion of society may play a role in this. So, perhaps (just perhaps...) societies that are particularly degrading towards homosexuals will in fact have slightly lower rates of homosexual activity. For me, this is not a positive thing, since I could give a crap what two consenting adults do. Or three. Or whatever.
But (loose association time), is there a risk that in 'normalising' pedophilia to any degree, we might slightly reduce the shame, fear and repression which may lower pedophilia activities? Or do you think this would be offset by a theoretical increase in the number of people with tendencies towards pedophilia who seek interventionist assistance?
My thoughts are that the very word 'pedophile' can lead to hysterical hatred at a level that 'murderer' does not. If we become more 'understanding' as a society, would you see the overall impact on acts of pedophilia as being decreased or increased?
I have no answer for the question incidentally.