Milton Platt
Well-Known Member
There's this new, popular dating app with a lot of questionable features. One of those features is once you message someone, it will pop up their picture and an alert whenever they come online. Some woman joined the site, seems to have just joined, and started talking to me. I talked pretty dryly to her, was under my best behavior and kept the messages brief. She didn't understand that it was the site doing it, and started to tell me that I was scaring her with all my popups of me. Sometimes I don't feel like explaining everything under the sun, so I logged out, and plan on deleting the app.
In other words, it was the app sending her these notifications. Autosending.
I'm kind of at a loss sometimes. I act like a gentleman, and then stuff like this happens. If instead I act like a clown, whether or not they like me, they'll feel attracted to my vibrations and I'll (usually) get kinder responses.
So what I'm asking is... are men in general scary enough that one should be extra cautious of them?
Or maybe my "acting like a gentleman" and barely saying anything out of politeness and letting her talk, comes off as creepy?
Maybe you should just go outside and meet people? LOL