The Sum of Awe
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I've had a crush on this girl at work for months, we talk now and again and have pretty good conversations when we do. There are sometimes signs that she likes me but it's hard to tell if I'm reading into things or if she really likes me.
She's in a relationship, has been for almost the same amount of time I've been working with her. This relationship isn't going good for her, she often complains about the guy. The guy's brother I believe also likes her and could very well ask her out before I can, but he's in a relationship and has a kid (afaik he's not totally happy in his relationship either).
I don't know if it's the right move or not. It's really hard - I don't want to miss my opportunity to ask her out, but at the same time I wonder if I should just be patient and wait until she becomes single and hope that she'll be single long enough for me to ask her out. That's a lot of 'if's though. Because what if the guy's brother does ask her out? I mean they are both somewhat flirty with each other but maybe they're just really good friends?
Hmm.... What would it hurt, though? If the relationship she's in is already bad and her and I are on good terms, what does it hurt to just tell her what I think of her? As long as I'm just throwing it out there and not asking her to make a decision, it should be fine right?
She's in a relationship, has been for almost the same amount of time I've been working with her. This relationship isn't going good for her, she often complains about the guy. The guy's brother I believe also likes her and could very well ask her out before I can, but he's in a relationship and has a kid (afaik he's not totally happy in his relationship either).
I don't know if it's the right move or not. It's really hard - I don't want to miss my opportunity to ask her out, but at the same time I wonder if I should just be patient and wait until she becomes single and hope that she'll be single long enough for me to ask her out. That's a lot of 'if's though. Because what if the guy's brother does ask her out? I mean they are both somewhat flirty with each other but maybe they're just really good friends?
Hmm.... What would it hurt, though? If the relationship she's in is already bad and her and I are on good terms, what does it hurt to just tell her what I think of her? As long as I'm just throwing it out there and not asking her to make a decision, it should be fine right?