MyM
Well-Known Member
I get that. I went against a norm, too, and was definitely labeled a freak.
The dating world seemed intimidating to me, so I never did it. I was probably single less than a year during my entire adult being. Some would say that isn't healthy. I don't really care. I consider it my personal business, and what works for many people doesn't necessarily work for me(likewise, what works for me doesn't work for many people).
Honestly, I found that scary. And that is one of the reasons I didn't 'play the field'. I didn't have to be married to engage in sexual activities(I was a Pagan during these years of my life, so religion had nothing to do with it), but the idea of casual sex disgusted me. I didn't care if other people engaged in it, as that isn't my business, but I didn't want that for myself. For me, sex was something that took place within a loving relationship.
I'm not trying to make light of this, but some people will get messed up and consider suicide over other scenarios, too(failed career, intolerant family, mental breakdown, etc). So, while I consider the idea of someone committing suicide over dating problematic, I have to acknowledge a person who is at risk of doing this is probably at risk in other areas, too.
totally understand thanks for your input