A Vestigial Mote
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Break-ups as "mini-divorces" is pretty much accurate, yes. But I am not sure what we are supposed to infer from this. That the process of vetting a potential mating candidate is bad business, and we should be conducting ourselves differently? We could all be setup with our mates randomly, by some authority - but this would, to me, smack of being just entirely about the process of furthering the species (or culture perhaps?), and would appear to have nothing to do with anyone wanting me to be happy in my situation (regardless whether or not I was happy with my randomly chosen mate, I would necessarily have to feel this way - i.e. that no one cared about my approval, or possibility of happiness - because no one cared enough to figure out beforehand whether or not I would or even potentially could be happy).
Does anyone remove from the female bird (of so many species) the prerogative to make her choice among potential suitors? Who would have such authority? Surely no one. Everyone can kiss the female bird's feathered behind for all their opinion is worth. For it is worth nothing. The kiss on the feathered bottom is worth far more - even as it is worth very little, and is even an undesirable situation to find oneself in. So either give up on trying to have an opinion about who everyone else should be mating with, or start kissing feathered butts.
Does anyone remove from the female bird (of so many species) the prerogative to make her choice among potential suitors? Who would have such authority? Surely no one. Everyone can kiss the female bird's feathered behind for all their opinion is worth. For it is worth nothing. The kiss on the feathered bottom is worth far more - even as it is worth very little, and is even an undesirable situation to find oneself in. So either give up on trying to have an opinion about who everyone else should be mating with, or start kissing feathered butts.
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